10 British Things That Americans Think Are Just For The Royal Family
10 British Things That Americans Think Are Just For The Royal Family

When it comes to British culture, there’s a whole lot that Americans tend to associate with the Royal Family, but trust me, it’s not all tiaras and tea parties over here. From afternoon tea to the way we say “thanks,” many of these British habits are just everyday occurrences, even if they might look a bit fancy to folks from the States. Let’s bust some myths and give you the real lowdown on these so-called regal British customs that are actually just normal parts of life for most Brits.
1. Afternoon Tea
Imagine this: you’re at home in your most comfortable slippers, maybe watching your favorite TV show, and you decide to make yourself a nice cup of tea with a scone or two on the side. That’s the real British afternoon tea for most of us. It’s not about fancy silverware or violins playing in the background. Whether we’re popping into a cozy café or just boiling the kettle at home, it’s about enjoying a simple, soothing break in our day.
2. Saying “cheers” instead of “thanks”
Here’s a fun one. Say someone holds the door open for you, or the cashier hands you your change; you’re likely going to hear a Brit say “cheers” rather than “thanks.” It’s casual, it’s friendly, and no, it’s not something we reserve for toasting at royal banquets. It’s just our go-to way to express a quick and easy thank-you.
3. Using “loo” for toilet
Now, when an American hears a Brit refer to the toilet as the “loo,” it might sound a bit posh or fancy. But honestly, it’s just a common term here and definitely less awkward than saying “bathroom,” especially when there’s no bath in sight. It’s practical, straightforward, and part of our everyday vocabulary.
4. Living near a castle
Not everyone in Britain lives next to a castle, but it’s true that our little island is dotted with plenty of old stone fortifications. Just because someone’s town has a castle or even a moat doesn’t mean they’re living a royal lifestyle. It’s just a bit of history right in our backyard.
5. Wearing fancy hats to events
Got a wedding, a horse race, or even some funerals? Don’t be surprised to see a variety of fancy hats. This tradition isn’t about looking like we’re attending a royal gala; it’s simply part of our attire for special occasions. No royal connections necessary, just a love for a bit of stylish flair.
6. The Queen’s English
When Americans hear what they often call the “Queen’s English,” they might picture someone of royal descent. In reality, it might just be someone from Surrey who had a good education. Proper pronunciation isn’t reserved for the royals; it’s widespread across various parts of the UK.
7. Black cabs
In the movies, British black cabs might look like they belong in a royal convoy, but they’re just our regular taxis. The drivers do go through a pretty rigorous test to know their way around, but there’s nothing royal about it. Just a reliable way to get from A to B.
8. Using titles like “Sir” and “Dame”
While titles like “Sir” and “Dame” are indeed a part of old British traditions and might seem right out of a storybook to some, they’re not as mystical or royal as you might think. Not every Sir or Dame has a castle or a sword — some might just be exceptional citizens who’ve made their mark.
9. Politeness that borders on Olympic sport
British politeness is legendary, often seen as a formal, almost royal-like behavior. But really, it’s just our way of keeping things smooth and pleasant. We’d rather say “sorry” too many times than cause any unnecessary fuss.
10. Crumpets
Last but not least, the humble crumpet, which might appear to be a delicacy fit for a queen’s breakfast, is actually a staple in most British kitchens. Found next to the loaves of bread in supermarkets, crumpets are a beloved part of our everyday meals, simple and delicious with a bit of butter.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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