10 Everyday British Habits That Americans Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around
10 Everyday British Habits That Americans Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around
Have you ever noticed some quirky habits when visiting England or chatting with British friends? From their unique greetings to how they make tea, some British habits can be pretty baffling to us Americans. Let’s break down ten everyday British quirks that might leave you scratching your head.
1. Washing Machines in the Kitchen
In the US, laundry machines are typically tucked away in a separate utility room or basement. But in many British homes, it’s common to find the washing machine right in the kitchen. Yes, right next to where they cook! This setup can seem odd to an American visitor, who might be used to dedicating a whole room just for washing and drying clothes. But in the UK, space can be tight, and fitting a washing machine in the kitchen is a practical solution that saves space.
2. Calling Dinner ‘Tea’
When a Brit invites you over for ‘tea,’ you might expect a cup of Earl Grey. But actually, they’re talking about dinner! This can definitely confuse Americans who aren’t familiar with the term being used for the evening meal. The word ‘tea’ in this context goes back centuries and is deeply ingrained in British culture, especially in the north of England.
3. Saying “You Alright?” as a Greeting
In the US, asking someone if they’re alright usually implies concern that something might be wrong. However, in Britain, “You alright?” is a casual way of saying hello. It’s not a question expecting a detailed health update, but more of a friendly nod, acknowledging someone’s presence.
4. Separate Hot and Cold Taps
Ever washed your hands in a British sink and couldn’t find the right water temperature? That’s because many British homes still have separate taps for hot and cold water. This can be a confusing ordeal for Americans who are accustomed to one faucet that mixes the water to the perfect temperature.
5. Taking an Umbrella Everywhere
In Britain, the weather can be unpredictable. Sunny one minute, rainy the next. That’s why Brits often carry an umbrella no matter the forecast. While Americans might check the weather before grabbing an umbrella, Brits prefer to be prepared for any sudden changes.
6. Not Saying “Excuse Me” When Bumping Into Someone
In the US, a bump usually comes with a quick “Excuse me.” In the UK, though, a simple glance or a soft “sorry” might be all you get. This minimal acknowledgment can seem rude to Americans who expect a clearer apology.
7. Calling People “Mate” (Even When Annoyed)
The term ‘mate’ is commonly used in Britain to refer to friends, and sometimes even strangers in a friendly manner. Interestingly, it can also be used during arguments in a passive-aggressive way. Figuring out the tone can be tricky for Americans who aren’t used to the double meaning.
8. Standing on the Left, Walking on the Right (Only on the Tube)
If you’re riding the escalators in the London underground, remember this rule: stand on the left, walk on the right. This unwritten rule helps keep the flow of traffic smooth but might be unfamiliar to Americans, where such specific escalator etiquette isn’t as strongly enforced.
9. No Screens on Windows
In the US, window screens are standard to keep bugs out. Over in the UK, it’s not uncommon to find windows without any screens. This might seem odd to Americans, especially during buggy seasons.
10. Milk Before or After the Tea Debate
In Britain, how you put milk in your tea can be a topic of hot debate. Some swear by adding milk before the tea, while others insist it must go after. This debate, surprisingly, is a serious topic among tea drinkers in the UK, and something Americans might not even consider.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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