10 Surprising Food Faux Pas Americans Often Make Abroad
10 Surprising Food Faux Pas Americans Often Make Abroad
Traveling is a blast, but sometimes we can get a bit tripped up when it comes to dining etiquette in different countries. Like, whatโs okay back home might not fly when youโre enjoying a meal abroad. Hereโs a quick guide to help you avoid those common food faux pas that us Americans often make without even realizing it.
1. Cutting food with the wrong hand
In America, we often cut our food with our right hand and then switch the fork back to eat. But in many European countries, this is a bit of a no-go. Over there, youโre supposed to keep your fork in your left hand and your knife in the right the whole time youโre eating. It might feel a little awkward at first, but youโll look way more polished once you get the hang of it.
2. Eating before everyone has been served
Jumping right into your food as soon as it hits the table is totally normal in the U.S. But in many parts of the world, itโs polite to wait until everyone has their meal before you start eating. This shows respect for your fellow diners and is considered good manners. So, next time, just give it a minute before digging in.
3. Tipping too much in certain countries
Weโre used to dropping a nice 15-20% tip at restaurants, but in many countries, tipping isnโt really a thingโor it’s much less than what we’re used to. In Japan and South Korea, for example, tipping can actually be seen as rude. Itโs a good idea to check out what the local tipping customs are before you leave a tip.
4. Not finishing everything on the plate
In the U.S., itโs totally fine to leave a bit of food on your plate when youโre full. But in countries like Japan and China, not finishing your meal can be seen as wasteful and disrespectful to the chef. Try to take smaller portions if youโre not super hungry to avoid any issues.
5. Asking for condiments in fine-dining restaurants
While itโs normal to ask for ketchup or hot sauce at many places in America, doing this in a fine-dining restaurant abroad might get you some raised eyebrows. Many chefs feel that their meal is perfectly seasoned, and asking for extra condiments can imply that you donโt appreciate their cooking as it was intended to be enjoyed.
6. Double-dipping in communal sauces
Double-dipping is generally a no-no everywhere, but itโs especially frowned upon abroad. If youโre sharing a sauce or a dip with others, never dip the same bitten piece of food twice. Itโs considered unhygienic and rude. Always use a clean spoon to scoop more sauce onto your plate if needed.
7. Touching food with your hands in chopstick cultures
In places like Japan and Korea where chopsticks are the norm, using your hands to grab food can seem out of place and impolite. It’s best to stick with the chopsticks, or at least ask for a fork if youโre really struggling. This shows that you respect the local dining customs.
8. Using the wrong bread plate at formal dinners
At a formal dinner, you might find a few different plates around your setting. Remember, your bread plate is the one to the left of your main dish. Using someone elseโs bread plate can mix things up and make the meal a bit awkward for everyone.
9. Pouring your own drink in Japan
If you find yourself at a drinking session in Japan, hold off on refilling your own glass. It’s customary to pour drinks for others and wait for someone to offer to refill your glass. This practice is all about building rapport and showing respect for each other.
10. Eating while walking in Italy
Grabbing a slice of pizza and eating it as you stroll through the streets might be fine in New York City, but in Italy, it’s seen as hurried and rude. Italians take pride in their meals and prefer that you sit down and savor your food, rather than eat on the go. So, take a moment, find a nice spot, and enjoy your meal the Italian way.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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