11 Things That Instantly Make You Look Like a Tourist in the US
Ever been in a new place and felt like you just stick out? Well, if you’re visiting the US, there are a few giveaways that you’re a tourist. From how you handle your dinner bill to your reaction at the checkout, certain things just scream ‘not from around here!’. Let’s go through some of these tell-tale signs so you can blend in better—or at least get a good laugh at how obvious we can be when we’re out of our element!
1. Not tipping or tipping too little
Tipping isn’t optional in many places in the US; it’s how a lot of workers in the service industry make most of their money. If you leave a restaurant, a hair salon, or a taxi without tipping, not only does it look stingy, but it’s also poor etiquette. A good tip is typically 15-20% of your total bill. Anything less, and you might unintentionally offend the staff. Tipping generously shows appreciation and ensures you receive good service throughout your stay.
2. Being confused by sales tax at checkout
Unlike many countries where tax is included in the price tag, in the US, sales tax is added at the checkout. This can be a surprise if you’re not expecting it, and you might find yourself fumbling with your wallet to find those extra cents. Sales tax varies by state and sometimes even by city, so the total cost can be a bit unpredictable. Just a heads-up—always expect to pay a little more than the sticker price!
3. Walking everywhere in car-heavy cities
In many parts of the US, especially in sprawling cities like Los Angeles, cars are the primary mode of transport. If you’re determined to walk everywhere, you might find it frustrating or unrealistic. In these areas, distances are vast, and public transportation may not be as dependable or widespread as you’re used to. To look less like a tourist and more like a local, renting a car or using rideshare apps might be a better bet.
4. Ordering small portions
Americans are known for their large portion sizes in restaurants. If you order something small, it might stand out. While it’s absolutely fine to order according to your hunger, be prepared for the generous servings here. It’s common for people to take leftovers home, so don’t feel pressured to finish everything on your plate in one go. Embrace it as part of the experience—more bang for your buck!
5. Being surprised by free refills
In many US restaurants, soft drinks come with unlimited free refills. So, if you express surprise when your glass is refilled without asking, it’s a dead giveaway that you’re not from around here. This custom is so common that most Americans think nothing of it. Enjoy the perk, and feel free to sip as much as you like!
6. Asking for the “bill” instead of the check
In the US, it’s common to ask for the ‘check’ rather than the ‘bill’ at the end of your meal. While everyone will understand what you mean if you ask for the bill, using local terminology like ‘check’ can help you blend in a bit more. It’s just one of those small details that can make you seem more like a local.
7. Not understanding drive-thru systems
Drive-thrus are a staple in the US, especially when it comes to fast food. If you’re unfamiliar with the system, it might seem daunting. Just follow the car in front of you, speak clearly when ordering, and make sure you have your payment ready by the time you reach the window. It’s all about quick service, so being prepared will help you look like you know what you’re doing.
8. Using British slang like “loo” or “mate”
While American English shares a lot with its British counterpart, certain words like ‘loo’ for bathroom or ‘mate’ for friend can immediately flag you as a tourist. Stick to ‘restroom’ or ‘bathroom’ and ‘friend’, ‘buddy’, or even ‘dude’ in casual settings. It’s a small change, but it can save you some sideways glances and help you fit in better.
9. Being shocked by healthcare costs
The cost of healthcare in the US can be astonishing if you’re not used to it. Always travel with insurance that covers you in the States. If you find yourself needing medical care, knowing that you’re covered can ease a lot of stress. Avoid discussing healthcare costs casually, as it can be a sensitive topic for many Americans.
10. Not carrying ID when buying alcohol
In the US, it’s standard to be asked for ID when buying alcohol, regardless of how old you look. Always have a valid ID on you to avoid any issues. It’s a strict policy in most places, and not having your ID can prevent you from enjoying a night out. It’s better to be safe than sorry, so keep your ID handy!
11. Expecting public transport everywhere
While some US cities have excellent public transportation systems, many do not. Relying solely on public transport can sometimes leave you stranded, especially in suburban or rural areas. Research your transportation options ahead of time, and consider renting a car if necessary. This little bit of planning can make your trip a lot smoother.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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