10 Things Brits Wish They Knew Before Moving to America
Moving from the UK to the USA is a big leap and there’s a lot to get your head around. From the basics like driving and distances to the more complex issues like healthcare and laws, there’s quite a bit that can catch a Brit off guard. If you’re thinking about making the move or just curious about the differences, here are ten things that might surprise you about living in America.
1. Driving is essential in many areas

In many parts of the US, having a car isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. The cities and towns are spread out and the public transport system isn’t always up to scratch. This means that for most everyday tasks like shopping, going to work, or even visiting a friend, you’ll likely need to drive. It’s a big change for anyone used to the UK’s compact city layouts and robust public transport network.
2. Distances are much greater than expected

Everything in America is just bigger, including the distances between places. What looks like a short drive on a map can actually be hours behind the wheel. This can be quite a shock if you’re used to popping from one city to another in the UK in no time at all. It’s not just road trips; everyday commutes can also be longer than you might expect.
3. Healthcare works differently

Healthcare in the US is a whole different ball game compared to the NHS. It’s largely insurance-based, and the costs can be high if you’re not covered. Navigating the system can be a bit of a minefield with insurance plans, co-pays, and non-covered expenses. It’s definitely something you want to research thoroughly before moving.
4. School districts matter

If you’re moving with kids, the importance of school districts cannot be overstated. In the US, the quality of education can vary dramatically from one district to another. Many parents base their living location choices on the reputation of the schools. It pays to do your homework on the best districts before settling down.
5. Summers can be extremely hot

Depending on where in the US you move, you might be in for some seriously hot summers. Places like Arizona and Texas see temperatures soaring high enough to alter your daily plans. It’s a far cry from the milder British summers and something to consider if you’re heat sensitive.
6. State laws vary significantly

Unlike the UK’s relatively uniform legal system, US state laws can vary immensely. From driving rules to tax codes, what’s permissible in one state can be illegal in another. This can be confusing, especially when travelling or moving between states. You’ll want to familiarize yourself with the local laws wherever you settle.
7. Home sizes are larger but upkeep costs more

American homes often offer more space than British ones, but this comes with higher maintenance costs. Everything from utilities to property taxes can add up, not to mention the effort of cleaning and upkeep. While the extra space can be a luxury, it’s good to be prepared for the additional costs.
8. Public transport can be limited

In many US cities and towns, public transport options are not as extensive or reliable as those in the UK. This can be a challenge if you’re used to living without a car. Before you move, it’s worth looking into the public transport availability in your new area, especially if you’re not planning to drive.
9. Tipping is expected almost everywhere

In America, tipping is not just for exceptional service; it’s expected at restaurants, bars, taxis, and even hair salons. The usual amount is 15-20% of the bill, which can be a surprise if you’re used to the more discretionary tipping culture in the UK. It’s a part of the cost of services that you’ll need to factor into your budget.
10. Domestic travel can take hours by plane

Given the vast size of the country, flying between states can take as long as international flights. A trip from New York to Los Angeles, for example, can take around 6 hours. It’s something to consider when making travel plans, especially if you’re used to the quick hops between European countries.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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