10 Things Brits Think Americans Take Too Seriously
Ever noticed how some things just seem a big deal in America but not so much elsewhere? Well, it’s true, especially when you chat with folks from the UK. They reckon Americans sometimes go over the top with how seriously they take certain things—from college football rivalries to credit scores. Let’s take a light-hearted look at 10 of these things. You might find it eye-opening, or just plain funny!
1. College admissions rankings

Over in the States, where you went to college can feel like it defines you. Americans pour over rankings by magazines like they’re betting odds for the big race. To a Brit looking in, this obsession with where a school ranks might seem a bit over the top. It’s not just about getting into a good uni; it’s about getting into one that has the right ‘rank’. Conversations at dinner parties can even hinge on this topic—imagine that! Meanwhile, most folks in the UK won’t bat an eyelid whether you went to Oxford or your local uni, as long as you can do the job.
2. Credit scores

Talk about stress! In America, your credit score is almost like your life score. Want a new phone plan? Credit score. How about renting an apartment? Credit score. This number follows Americans around like a shadow. Brits, on the other hand, might find the whole saga a bit much. Yes, credit is important, but in the UK it’s typically just one of several factors considered, and life doesn’t revolve quite so much around this all-important number.
3. School sports

In the US, Friday night lights isn’t just a TV show—it’s a lifestyle. High school sports can be the heartbeat of a community, with folks filling stands like it’s a professional league game. In Britain, while people definitely get behind local football (soccer) teams, the scale and intensity of American high school sports can seem pretty intense. Imagine shutting down town for a high school football game—it’s a regular occurrence across the pond!
4. HOA regulations

Homeowner’s Associations (HOAs) can have a lot of rules in the US, from the color you can paint your house to the type of mailbox you can have. Brits often find this level of control amusing or bewildering. Imagine being told you can’t plant certain flowers in your garden or that your fence is an inch too high! It’s a level of detail that many in the UK would find, frankly, a bit silly.
5. Personal branding

The term ‘personal brand’ is thrown around a lot in the US. From LinkedIn profiles to Instagram feeds, there’s a high level of curation involved in how individuals present themselves online. In the UK, while people obviously do care about their image, the idea of curating a personal brand might not carry the same weight or necessity. The concept of constantly selling oneself as a brand can come across as slightly exhausting!
6. Political identity

Politics can be divisive anywhere, but in the US it’s almost like a sport. Are you Team Blue or Team Red? People often wear their political identities on their sleeves, and it can heavily influence friendships, family relationships, and even job opportunities. In contrast, while Brits do have strong political opinions, the intensity and visibility of political allegiance as seen in the US can seem extreme. It’s like every conversation has a potential to turn into a debate club.
7. Career titles

In America, what you do can sometimes feel as important as who you are. Job titles can define social status and personal identity to an extent that might surprise some Brits. In the UK, while people take pride in their work, there’s generally less emphasis on job titles. It’s more about what you actually do, rather than what your business card says.
8. Home size comparisons

The size of your house in the US can be a big deal. Neighborhood parties often turn into unofficial ‘who’s got the bigger house’ contests. From square footage to the number of rooms, size often matters. In the UK, where space is at a premium, especially in cities like London, the obsession with home size can seem a bit puzzling. After all, a cozy, well-appointed home beats a sprawling mansion that feels like an empty hall, right?
9. Networking events

Gone are the days of simple socializing—welcome to the age of networking. In the US, these events can sometimes feel like meat markets, with everyone looking to snag the next big opportunity. It’s all about what you can do for me, and it’s taken very seriously. Brits might find this relentless networking a bit much, preferring a more laid-back approach to professional connections, where a pint and a chat could do just as much good.
10. College football rivalries

If you thought professional sports rivalries were intense, college football in America can take it to another level. Whole towns live and breathe their college teams, and game days are practically holidays. In the UK, while local rivalries in sports like football exist and can get spirited, the sheer scale and fervor of college football rivalries in the US can appear a bit excessive. Imagine the local pub times a thousand, and you’re getting close!
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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