12 Things Brits Find Surprisingly Strict About Everyday Life in America
When Brits move to America or visit for a while, they often find some of the rules and regulations a bit more stringent than back home. From the way your house has to look, to where you can enjoy a pint, America’s everyday life is governed by a variety of strict rules. Let’s walk through 12 of these rules that might catch Brits off-guard.
1. HOA rules

In many American communities, Homeowners’ Associations (HOAs) have strict guidelines on how your home should look. From the color of your paint to the type of mailbox you can use, these rules ensure neighborhoods look uniform and tidy. While it keeps areas looking nice, it can be a surprise to Brits who are used to more personal freedom in home decoration.
2. Open-Container Alcohol Laws

Imagine strolling through a festival with a beer in hand, something you might do in the UK, right? In many places in the US, carrying an open container of alcohol in public places is illegal. This law aims to reduce public drunkenness and maintain public order, but it can feel a bit restrictive if you’re just looking to enjoy a casual drink outdoors.
3. Drinking-Age Enforcement

The legal drinking age in the US is 21, higher than the UK’s 18. American authorities are also very strict about enforcing this rule. Bars and stores will often check IDs, and underage drinking is generally met with harsh penalties. It’s a significant adjustment for young Brits who are accustomed to more flexible policies at home.
4. ID Checks Well Into Adulthood

Don’t be surprised if you’re in your 30s and still getting carded at bars or when buying alcohol. In America, everyone looks young, right? Well, ID checks are routine, and refusing to show your ID can mean you won’t be served, no matter your age. It’s all about ensuring that no underage sales happen.
5. Parking Restrictions in Suburban Communities

Suburban America has its share of parking rules. Whether it’s no overnight parking on the street or needing permits to park in certain areas, these regulations are intended to reduce congestion and maintain public safety. For Brits used to small towns where parking is much more relaxed, this can be a bit of a shock.
6. School Attendance Rules

Truancy laws in the US are taken very seriously. Schools regularly check attendance, and parents can be held legally responsible if their children miss too much school without a valid excuse. It emphasizes the importance of education but also adds a layer of legal responsibility for parents.
7. Rules About Front Gardens in Some Neighbourhoods

In some neighborhoods, even your garden isn’t free from rules. Restrictions on what plants you can grow or how tall your grass can be might seem over the top. It’s all part of keeping the community looking consistent, but for Brits who love a wild garden, it might seem a little much.
8. Pool Regulations

If you’re dreaming of that lovely home with a backyard pool, be ready for the regulations that come with it. Safety barriers, pool hygiene, and even the hours you can use the pool are often strictly regulated to prevent accidents and disturbances. It’s safe but can feel restrictive.
9. Jaywalking Laws in Some Places

In the UK, crossing the road is often as simple as looking both ways and making a dash when it’s clear. In the US, however, ‘jaywalking’ – or crossing the road outside of designated areas – can land you a fine. These laws are meant to prevent accidents and keep traffic flowing smoothly, but they can catch you off guard.
10. Local Restrictions on Where Alcohol Can Be Sold

Different states, and sometimes even different towns within a state, have their own rules about where and when alcohol can be sold. Some places don’t allow alcohol sales on Sundays, or only sell it in specific stores. It’s a patchwork of regulations that can be confusing at first.
11. Building and Zoning Rules

Thinking of adding an extension to your house or building a shed in your backyard? In the US, you’ll likely need a permit for that. Zoning laws regulate what can be built where, and building codes dictate how it should be built. This ensures everything is safe and orderly but requires some homework and patience.
12. Rules About What Residents Can Park Outside Their Own Homes in Some HOAs

Some HOAs have rules not just about how homes should look, but also about what you can park outside. Restrictions on parking commercial vehicles, boats, or RVs outside your home are common. It helps maintain the neighborhood’s aesthetic but can be inconvenient if you own larger vehicles or equipment.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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