Surprising Japanese Etiquette Rules That Can Confuse Foreigners

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Surprising Japanese Etiquette Rules That Can Confuse Foreigners

Japanese etiquette can be quite surprising for foreigners. The customs and practices reflect a deep respect for tradition and social order. Here are some unusual etiquette rules in Japan that might confuse visitors.

1. Slurping noodles is considered polite.

In Japan, slurping noodles isn’t rude but a sign of enjoying your meal. It indicates that the food is delicious and you are appreciating the chef’s effort. Contrary to many Western cultures where eating quietly is polite, in Japan, loud slurping is the norm and totally acceptable in public eateries.

2. Tipping is generally considered rude.

Unlike many countries where tipping is customary, in Japan, it can be seen as offensive. Workers feel proud of their service and believe they are already compensated fairly. Offering a tip can imply that their service needs additional compensation and can embarrass the recipient.

3. Blowing your nose in public is frowned upon.

In Japanese culture, blowing your nose in public is considered impolite and unhygienic. It’s better to excuse yourself and find a private place if you need to blow your nose. Using a handkerchief quietly or a quick sniffle is more acceptable in public settings.

4. Shoes must be removed when entering homes and certain public spaces.

Removing shoes before entering a home or certain public areas like temples and traditional inns (ryokan) is a must in Japan. This practice helps keep indoor spaces clean. There are usually designated shelves or lockers for storing shoes.

5. It is impolite to eat or drink while walking in public.

Eating or drinking while walking is often seen as sloppy and impolite in Japan. It is preferable to stop and eat or drink standing in one spot or, better yet, find a seating area or designated eating place to enjoy your meal or refreshment properly.

6. Pointing directly at people with your finger is considered rude.

In Japanese culture, pointing at someone with your finger is seen as accusatory and rude. If you need to refer to someone, it’s better to use an open hand gesture or simply nod in their direction, maintaining a respectful demeanor.

7. Returning a bow is expected when someone bows to you.

Bowing is a common form of greeting in Japan, expressing respect and gratitude. If someone bows to you, it is polite to return the bow with the same depth and duration to show mutual respect and acknowledgment.

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8. Passing food using chopsticks directly to someone else’s chopsticks is a funeral rite and considered taboo otherwise.

In Japan, passing items from chopstick to chopstick is practiced during funeral rites when handling bones. Doing this outside of a funeral context is considered a breach of etiquette and can invoke associations with death and mourning.

9. Speaking loudly on phones in trains is considered rude.

Japanese trains are remarkably quiet. Speaking loudly on your phone or having loud conversations can disturb other passengers. It’s advised to keep your phone on silent mode and avoid calls until you’re off the train.

10. It’s considered proper to pour drinks for others, but not for oneself when in a group.

When drinking in a group, it is customary to serve others first before someone offers to pour your drink. Pouring your own drink can seem self-serving. This practice fosters a sense of community and consideration among the group.

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