10 American Wedding Traditions Brits Would Never Dream of Copying
When it comes to weddings, Americans and Brits certainly have different tastes and traditions. From how big the parties get to what happens at the wedding itself, there are some American customs that might just raise an eyebrow or two across the pond. Let’s take a look at ten American wedding traditions that Brits would probably never think about adopting.
1. Elaborate Bridesmaid Proposals
Imagine this: instead of just asking your friends over a cup of tea, you plan a mini-event with personalized gifts just to ask, “Will you be my bridesmaid?” In the U.S., bridesmaid proposals have become almost as important as the wedding proposals. These often involve custom boxes filled with goodies, balloons, and sometimes even a scavenger hunt. It’s a whole thing designed to make your pals feel super special and excited about your big day.
2. Huge Bridal Showers
Over in America, bridal showers can be as big as the wedding itself. We’re talking themed decorations, games, a big guest list, and loads of presents. It’s a chance for the bride to get together with her friends and family to celebrate before the big day. These parties can sometimes even require their own mini budget!
3. Rehearsal Dinners
The night before the wedding, Americans often host a rehearsal dinner. This is not just a simple meal. It includes all the wedding party, close family, and sometimes even out-of-town guests. It’s a full-on event with speeches, toasts, and sometimes slideshows of the couple. It’s a warm-up to the main event, filled with anticipation and excitement.
4. Enormous Bridal Parties
Why have two or three bridesmaids when you can have ten? In many American weddings, the more the merrier. Having a large bridal party is seen as a way to involve all your close friends in your special day. However, coordinating this many people can be a logistical challenge!
5. Massive Wedding Registries
In the U.S., couples often set up huge wedding registries with gifts ranging from blenders to camping gear. It’s a way for couples to outfit their new life together, with the help of their guests. The list can be long and sometimes even include luxurious items you wouldn’t imagine asking for!
6. Wedding Websites for Every Detail
Details about every single part of the wedding? There’s a website for that. Americans love to create a full-on digital hub for their wedding where guests can find event times, locations, registry info, and even RSVP. It’s super practical but can be a lot to manage!
7. Matching Outfits for Everyone
In the U.S., not only does the bridal party wear matching outfits, but sometimes the guests are even asked to adhere to a specific color scheme. This makes for great photos but can be a bit much for someone just wanting to pick out their own outfit.
8. Huge Engagement Parties
For some Americans, the engagement party is the kickoff to wedding festivities, and it’s as big as the wedding itself. Often hosted by the bride’s family, this bash can include everyone who’s invited to the wedding, meaning it’s another big event to plan and enjoy.
9. Elaborate Choreographed First Dances
Gone are the days of a simple slow dance. Nowadays, many American couples go for a fully choreographed number, sometimes even including their bridal party. It can turn into a real showstopper with practices and professional choreography involved.
10. Turning the Wedding into an Entire Weekend
Why have a one-day event when you can stretch the celebrations over a weekend? Some American weddings include a welcome party, the wedding, a post-wedding brunch, and more. It turns into a mini-vacation for everyone involved but also extends the stress and planning.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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