10 Things Brits Think Americans Need To Stop Doing Overseas
When Americans travel abroad, they often unintentionally bring along some habits that might not sit well with locals. From expecting everything to be like home to talking over others, here’s a look at what Brits think Americans should reconsider when they’re overseas. Let’s keep things friendly and respectful by understanding these points.
1. Assuming every country wants American-style service
In the US, customer service can be a big deal, with staff often going the extra mile to make sure you’re happy. But not every place operates like this, and that’s totally okay. In many parts of the world, the approach to service is more laid-back or formal, without constant check-ins from staff. It’s not rude; it’s just a different way of doing things. Understanding this can make your trips smoother and show respect for local business customs.
2. Talking over locals explaining their own culture
Imagine someone telling you about your own hometown’s traditions in a way that’s off the mark. That’s how it feels when tourists talk over locals sharing their culture. It’s important to listen more and speak less in these situations. This respect can open up a deeper understanding and appreciation of the beautiful and diverse cultures around the world.
3. Expecting massive portions everywhere
Food portions can vary greatly around the world. In many countries, servings are smaller than the US standard. This isn’t stinginess—it’s just how it is! Enjoying the local cuisine as it comes allows you to experience authenticity and perhaps even helps in reducing food waste. Plus, smaller portions mean you can try more different dishes!
4. Complaining that places are “less convenient” than the US
Different places have different ways of doing things, and that’s part of the adventure of travel. Shops might close earlier, and public transport might not be what you’re used to, but that’s all part of experiencing what life is like somewhere else. Embrace the differences; it might teach you a new way of looking at daily life.
5. Assuming everyone follows American sports or celebrities
While American culture does have wide reach, not everyone follows the NFL or knows the latest Hollywood gossip. Sports like soccer, cricket, and rugby can be way bigger in other places. Conversations can be more rewarding when you show interest in local entertainment and sports instead. Who knows, you might find a new favorite!
6. Treating foreign customs as “quirky” rather than normal
What’s everyday for someone might be unusual for another, but calling local customs “quirky” can feel belittling. It’s cool to find things different, but it’s also cool to respect them as normal for the people who live by them. This mindset helps in seeing the beauty in diversity rather than making it a spectacle.
7. Expecting strangers to be extremely outgoing
In some cultures, being super outgoing and chatty isn’t the norm, and that’s perfectly fine. Not everyone has the same comfort level with interactions, and respecting personal space is key. Quieter or more reserved interactions aren’t unfriendly; they’re just another way of communication.
8. Thinking every conversation needs high energy
High energy talks are common in American social settings, but this isn’t a universal standard. In many places, a calmer, more relaxed conversation is the norm. Matching this tone can not only make the chat more enjoyable but also shows you’re tuning into the local social etiquette.
9. Acting shocked by smaller cars, homes, or roads
Space is a luxury in many parts of the world, leading to smaller homes, cars, and narrower roads. This doesn’t mean they’re inferior; they’re just designed according to the environment and needs. Getting around in a compact car or walking narrow streets can be part of the local charm!
10. Comparing every country negatively to America
It’s natural to compare new experiences to what you know. However, constantly putting other countries in a negative light compared to the US can take away from the beauty of travel. Every place has its own strengths and struggles. Appreciating each for what it offers makes for a much richer experience.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.
We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.
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