121 Alphabet Dating Ideas For Long Distance Couples

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Are you looking for fun and different alphabet dating ideas for long distance relationships? From playing virtual board games online to painting and sip nights, we’ve got you covered with over 100 A to Z long distance date ideas.

Eric and I actually were long distance for about a year. We had to be creative and come up with virtual date ideas we could do to spend time together. After a while, it’s true that just talking over video call gets a bit old. When you’re long distance, you still want to experience dates like traditional couples who are physically present together. Traditional couples go to the movies, eat out and go play games at arcades. We came up with ideas that are as similar to that as possible.

In addition, the alphabet challenge is a great way to keep the spark going in a relationship. It’s a great way to break the routine and keep dating regularly. You can undertake the challenge as you wish, starting with A or Z.

A alphabet dating ideas for long distance couples

1. Astrology Night – Explore horoscopes and birth charts.
2. Art Project – Create art together virtually, you can use this site.
3. Audiobook Listening – Listen to a book together.
4. Adventure Planning – Plan a future trip.
5. Anime Watching – Watch an anime series together.
6. Art Museum Virtual Tour – Tour a museum online.
7. Astronomy Session – Stargaze and discuss constellations.
8. Alphabet Game – Play a word game with the alphabet.
9. Appreciation Day – Share things you appreciate about each other.

B alphabet dating long distance ideas

10. Book Club Mystery – Read the same book. Before you start reading, each make guesses as to what the plot and resolution is. This works best with detective books.
11. Baking Challenge – Bake the same recipe and compare your results.
12. Board Games Online – You can try this site.
13. Bucket List Creation – Make future plans and dreams.
14. Breakfast Date – Have breakfast together via video call.
15. Balcony Stargazing – Share the view from your balconies and send each other photos of clouds or stars that make you think of each other.
16. Botanical Garden Virtual Tour – Explore your local botanical garden online.

C ideas

17. Craft Night – Do heartfelt crafts together on video call. You can gift your creation to each other next time you are together.
18. Coffee Chat – Have a coffee date over video.
19. Comedy Night – Watch a comedy show together.
20. Costume Party – Dress up and have a virtual party.
21. Charades – Play charades over video call.

D ideas

22. Drawing Contest – Draw each other on camera and then show your results to each other. You can even add themes to the challenge. 
23. Documentary Night – Watch and discuss a documentary.
24. Dessert Making – Make the same dessert and enjoy.
25. Digital Scrapbooking – Create a scrapbook online.
26. Dream House Planning – Design your dream house together. You can also do this in Canva.
27. Disney Movie Night

E alphabet dating for long distance

28. Exercise Together – Do a workout session via video.
29. Email Exchange – Write daily love emails for a week.
30. Exploring Google Earth – Travel the world virtually and try to find funny street views.
31. Escape Room Online – Solve an online escape room, you can try this virtual escape room here.

F ideas for ABC dating long distance

32. Film Festival – Watch films with a common theme.
33. Fitness Challenge – Compete in a fitness challenge.
34. Fashion Show – Have a virtual fashion show for each other. make it as naughty or nice as you wish.
35. Foreign Language Learning – Learn a new language together.

G ideas for alphabet long distance dating

36. Gaming Night – Play online games together.
37. Geography Quiz – Test each other’s geography knowledge.
38. Ghost Story Telling – Share scary stories.
39. Guided Meditation – Do a meditation session together.
40. Games for Couples – Try this card game for couples.

H ideas

41. Haiku Writing – Write and share haikus.
42. Horror Movie Marathon – Watch horror movies together.
43. Heart-to-Heart Talks – Have deep and meaningful conversations.

I ideas

44. Ice Cream Social – Eat ice cream together virtually.
45. Indoor Scavenger Hunt – Create and play a scavenger hunt. You can prepare a scavenger hunt for each other with clues and puzzles to solve. It’s easier if you know their house so you can guide them. For example, clue 1 will have them go to the bathroom. Once they are win the bathroom, give them clue 2 that will take them to the kitchen. Keep going until they reach the final location. 
46. Inspirational Talk – Share inspirational stories or TED talks.
47. In-Depth Discussions – Have discussions on complex topics.
48. Indoor Picnic – Have a picnic in your living spaces.

J long distance alphabet dating ideas

49. Jigsaw Puzzle Solving – Solve an online puzzle together.
50. Journal Sharing – Share entries from your personal journals.
51. Joke Night – Tell each other jokes.
52. Jam Session – Play music or sing together.
53. Jewelry Making – Create jewelry and gift it to each other next time you meet.
54. Journalistic Adventure – Write a news article together that tells the story of how you met.

K alphabet date ideas for long distance

55. Karaoke Night – Sing karaoke together online.
56. Knowledge Quiz – Test each other’s knowledge.
57. Kindness Day – Do something kind for each other. This can be as easy as ordering your date their favourite food and have it delivered to them.
58. Keepsake Creating – Create keepsakes for each other.

L ideas

59. Language Learning – Learn a new language together.
60. Love Letter Writing – Write and send love letters to each other
61. Live Music Listening – Listen to a live concert online.
62. Life Goals Sharing – Share and discuss life goals.
63. Laugh Therapy – Share funny videos or stories.

M ideas

64. Movie Marathon – Watch movies together online.
65. Memory Sharing – Share old photos and memories.
66. Music Playlist Exchange – Create and share music playlists.
67. Museum Virtual Tour – Take a virtual museum tour together.
68. Mocktail Making – Make and enjoy mocktails together.
69. Magic Tricks – Learn and perform magic tricks.

N ideas for alphabet date long distance

70. Novel Writing – Start writing a novel about your story and what you imagine for the future.
71. Name That Tune – Play ‘name that tune’ with music.
72. Nostalgia Night – Share nostalgic memories or items.

O ideas

73. Origami Making – Make origami and show each other.
74. Online Shopping – Shop online together.
75. Opera Watching – Watch an opera or musical online.
76. Online Quiz – Take our quiz to find what next date in person you should do.
77. Old Movies Night – Watch classic old movies.
78. Online Art Exhibition – Explore art exhibitions virtually.

P ideas

79. Painting Session – Paint together via video. Pick a theme and see who can make the best painting. You can check our paint and sip ideas for inspiration.
80. Poem Writing – Create a poem for each other.
81. Photoshop Fun – Use photos of yourself and make funny montages to send each other.

Q ideas

82. Quiet Time – Enjoy quiet time together online.
83. Quote Exchange – Share and discuss favorite love quotes.
84. Question Game – Ask each other deep or funny relationship questions.

R alphabet dating long distance ideas

85. Reading a book together
86. Road trip planning
87. Riddle solving night
88. Retro game night online
89. Romantic playlist creation
90. Reality TV show binge-watching and rating 

S ideas

91. Streaming a concert together
92. Story writing – create a story together
93. Spa day at home – guided by each other
94. Spicy dares
95. Sudoku challenge

T alphabet dating ideas for long distance relationship

96. Truth or Dare Night
97. Talent show – show each other your hidden talents
98. TikTok challenge participation
99. Treasure hunt – clues leading to a virtual surprise

U ideas for alphabet dates long distance

100. Ukulele learning session together
101. Underwater webcam watching
102. UFO documentary watching
103. Unusual food tasting – order exotic foods and share what you think with each other over video
104. Uno online

V ideas

105. Virtual reality gaming session
106. Vineyard tour (virtual)
107. Volunteer for an online cause
108. Vision board creation for future plans

W ideas

109. Web series watching together
110. Wine tasting – send each other the same wines to try
111. Writing poems for each other
112. Wish list creation

X ideas

113. Xbox gaming together
114. X-rated (adults only) conversation night

Y ideas

115. Yoga session together
116. YouTube dance class
117. Year in review – sharing past year’s highlights

Z ideas

118. Zoo virtual tour
119. Zumba class together online
120. Zodiac sign exploration
121. Zoom cooking date