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227 Alphabet Dating Ideas That Your Partner Will Love

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Are you looking for the best alphabet dating ideas? You’ve found them! Eric and I have been dating for years and traveling to romantic destinations for just as long. From dating in Vancouver to dating in Dublin and now living in London, we’ve had many romantic dates!

But with dating comes difficulty. After a while, all dates start to look the same with the same old dinner and a movie night or eating out dates! 

In this post, we’ve gathered our extensive dating experience to bring you over 200 ideas for alphabet dates. From A to Z, you’ll find a range of indoor and outdoor alphabet date ideas that can suit every couple from a first date to married couples!  

For more personalized date ideas, you can also use our date idea generator here.

Alphabet date ideas 

In this section, we have included date ideas for each letter of the alphabet. For each letter of the alphabet, we’ve included our favorite indoor and outdoor date ideas that start with the corresponding letter. This will allow you to pick date ideas that match the weather of your location and your mood! 

Us walking alpacas, one of the alphabet date ideas that start with an A
Us walking alpacas, one of the alphabet date ideas that start with an A

Date ideas beginning with A

Our top 3 picks: Arcade, Alpaca walking, Apple picking

Indoor dates that start with a

  1. Visit the Aquarium

One of the first dates we ever had was going to the Vancouver Aquarium together! We saw many sea lions, turtles and other beautiful marine animals and had a blast. The atmosphere was super cute and prone for holding hands! You can even plan a romantic dinner by the aquarium’s tank or attend a special event. The aquarium’s calming and enchanting environment provides a perfect backdrop for an intimate date that fosters a deeper connection between you and your partner so we highly recommend it!

  1. Ask each other relationship questions

Sometimes, all we want form a date is actual connection and to feel like the other person is fully present. Delve into the depths of your relationship and build a deeper emotional connection by asking each other intimate and meaningful questions. You can create a cozy and intimate environment, perhaps with candlelight, soft music and a couple of drinks. This will allow you to connect with your partner on a deeper level and explore aspects of your relationship that you may not have thought of before.

  1. Arcade games playing

Challenge your partner to a game of your choice at the arcade and share in the excitement and thrill of each other’s successes. Eric and I love going to the arcade and go back into our childhoods. It allows us to share what our favorite games were and play them together now! You can connect and build intimacy through playful competition, encouraging each other and celebrating each other’s achievements. Enjoy the youthful energy and childlike fun of the arcade as you reconnect with your inner child and each other.

  1. Astrology reading

Astrology has become really popular in the past few years. Though Eric and I aren’t too into it, we know plenty of couples who really enjoy it. You can embark on a journey of self-discovery and learn more about each other’s personalities and life paths through an astrology reading.To make it more romantic, you can create a cozy and relaxing ambiance and take turns exploring your natal charts. This will allow you to gain a deeper understanding of each other’s innermost selves, and foster a more meaningful and intimate connection.

  1. Rent a cool Airbnb

There are some really cool airbnbs out there. For dates, we’ve stayed at a tree house and other airbnbs with hot tubs! You can choose a location that allows you to enjoy each other’s company and disconnect from the outside world without it needing to be far. Cook a romantic dinner together, share a bottle of wine, and take advantage of the different amenities available to connect and deepen your bond.

  1. Art gallery visit

Having lived in Dublin and now London, we’re very familiar with art galleries! I’m pretty artistic while Eric isn’t really so our tip to the art galleries always end up in laughters. Some of the pieces definitely make us laugh because our interpretations are very different. That’s why it makes it such a fun date idea. You’ll be able to share a laugh and connect on a deeper level through sharing your thoughts. You’ll explore the different exhibits together and take time to appreciate each other’s unique perspectives.

  1. Afternoon tea

Since we now live in London, an afternoon tea date is a must! Share a cup of tea and a plate of delicate pastries in a cozy and elegant tea room. You can take your time to savor the flavors and aromas, and enjoy the intimacy of the moment.

Outdoor alphabet dating A letter ideas

  1. Alpaca walking

We’ve gone alpaca walking in Ireland when we lived there and we loved it. It was such a unique experience that it was perfect for a date. Imagine you and your partner strolling through a picturesque landscape, hand in hand, while these friendly animals join you. The quiet ambiance and charming company create an unforgettable experience. You can walk an alpaca each or walk one together. This unique activity encourages physical and emotional closeness while building a deeper connection between you and your partner. It also provides a lot of cuddles and it’s really fun to feed them!  We highly recommend it!

  1. Air balloon ride

To inject a bit of sensation into your relationship, go hot air ballon riding! Soar through the clouds and experience breathtaking panoramic views of the world below with your loved one. The peaceful tranquility of floating through the air creates an intimate atmosphere, ideal for sharing intimate conversations and expressing feelings of love and affection. You might also just be speechless which is fine and will make you feel closer. As the sun sets and the sky turns into a dazzling canvas of colors, you’ll be able to hold each other tight and make unforgettable memories.

  1. Apple picking

For one of the best activities beginning with A, we recommend apple picking together. You’ll be able to immerse yourselves in the beauty of nature, the sweet aroma of ripe apples, and the joy of being together. Walking hand in hand through the orchard, picking your own fruit, and enjoying a warm apple pie together afterwards is the perfect way to spend a romantic day. Sharing this sensory experience creates a special bond between you and your partner and you’ll have fun memories!

  1. Amusement parks

Step back into childhood and enjoy the thrill of the rides with your partner. The adrenaline rush and excitement of being scared together brings you closer and strengthens your bond. You can share cotton candy and indulge in other treats, while enjoying the company of each other in a lively, fun atmosphere. One of our very first dates in Vancouver was going to the PNE. We ate cotton candy, had churros and played many games! It was a lot of fun and it felt really romantic especially during the summer!

  1. Animal refuge or reserve

Being close to nature and experiencing the beauty of wildlife together creates a sense of wonder and awe, and makes for an unforgettable romantic date. The opportunity to get up close and personal with animals, to observe and appreciate their unique beauty and grace, and to learn about the importance of conservation creates a deeper connection between you and your partner. If you’re both animal lovers, this is a great one!

  1. Art festivals

Art festivals are great for experiencing the magic of art together and immersing yourselves in creativity. You can wander hand in hand through the stalls, admire the paintings and sculptures, and enjoy the live music and performances. Even if you’re not one of the creative people on this planet, art festivals usually have a few workshops most people enjoy. No pressure, just have fun!

  1. Axe throwing

One of my favorite dates we had with Eric was going axe throwing in Squamish on our romantic road trip to Whistler! Such a Canadian activity! You’ll learn the technique and take turns throwing axes, cheering each other on and enjoying the competitive spirit. The adrenaline rush, laughter and sense of playfulness create an exciting and memorable experience, and foster a deeper connection. This is a date idea you can do in Boston but also a date idea you can do in Vancouver.

  1. Go ATVing

Explore the great outdoors and take on an exciting adventure with your partner. The thrill of the ride, the stunning scenery and the sense of freedom create an unforgettable experience. We rented an ATV on one of the most romantic greek islands and had so much fun! Working together and navigating the trails while enjoying the fresh air and beautiful surroundings strengthens your connection and creates lasting memories. We certainly have some unforgettable memories!

We have a dedicated post on date ideas that start with A if you need more help to get on the alphabet dates train.

Dates beginning with B

Our top 3 picks: Bingo game, Beach walk, Botanical garden

Us taking a romantic walk on the beach, one of the alphabet date ideas starting with a B
Us taking a romantic walk on the beach, one of the alphabet date ideas starting with a B

Indoor alphabet dating B ideas

  1. Broadway Show

If you happen to be in NY, you have to go on a date on Broadway! You can indulge in the magic of theatre with your partner and let yourselves be transported to another world. Enjoy the music, the performances, and the story, and discuss your impressions afterward.

  1. Build a fort in the living room

This is an easy date idea that works for anybody. It allows you to go back into your childhood which is great to let loose and really connect together. You can use blankets, pillows, and fairy lights to create a magical space where you can cuddle, talk, and watch a movie. The playfulness and creativity involved in building the fort and the closeness it fosters create a romantic and memorable experience.

  1. Bubble bath

An oldie but a goodie! We recommend unwinding and relaxing with your partner in a bubble bath. Light candles, play soft music, and enjoy each other’s company while soaking in the warm water. The intimate atmosphere and the physical and emotional closeness create a romantic and rejuvenating experience.

  1. Brunch at a rooftop restaurant

Rooftop restaurants are a lot of fun because they usually have a unique views which creates a romantic atmosphere right away. You can enjoy a delicious meal and a breathtaking view with your date. The combination of good food, beautiful scenery, and the company of each other creates a magical experience. It’s also a great one to do if you’re afraid the conversation might not be fluid. The view will be a great conversation starter allowing both parties to relax and ease into the date!

  1. See a Ballet show

Another B date idea is to experience the elegance and grace of ballet with your partner. You’ll be able to appreciate the beauty of the performances, the music, and the costumes, and share your impressions afterward. Most people have never been to a ballet so it will definitely show your date that you’re full of surprises!

  1. Bingo game

We love a good Bingo game. There are many themes that you can use to play or even make your own bingo game! You’ll laugh, tease each other, and try to win the game. The sense of playfulness and light-heartedness create an exciting and memorable experience that strengthens your bond.

  1. Bowling together

Bowling’s a classic but it never fails you for a date idea that starts with a B! You can engage in a friendly competition with your partner while enjoying a night out. The sense of playfulness, the thrill of the game, and the laughter will bring you together and will allow you to forget about your routine and really be present with each other.

  1. Bake together

Baking speaks directly to the heart. Whether you’re baking, baked for or baking together, it’s a must do date idea at least once! Indulge in the pleasures of baking and enjoy the delicious treats you create together. Work as a team and share your knowledge and creativity to create something special. You can bake brownies or cookies which are fairly simple and can even be shaped like hearts for additional romance!

Outdoor alphabet dating ideas B letter

  1. Breakfast at sunrise

Start your day with a romantic and breathtaking view of the sunrise. Prepare a delicious breakfast and enjoy it together while admiring the beauty of the moment. The peacefulness and the shared appreciation of nature create a romantic and intimate experience that strengthens your connection.

  1. Botanical garden outing

Immerse yourself in the beauty of nature and explore the wonder of the botanical gardens with your partner. Take a leisurely stroll and enjoy the beauty of the flowers, the scents, and the colors. The shared appreciation of the natural world and the tranquility it brings create a romantic and meaningful experience.

  1. Blueberry picking

Spend a day in nature with your partner and pick fresh blueberries together. Enjoy the sweetness of the berries and the satisfaction of your harvest. this is a date idea you can do in many places. For example, when going on a date in Cincinnati, you can go fruit picking too. The sense of collaboration and the joy of being outdoors create a romantic and memorable experience that strengthens your connection.

  1. Beach walk

One of the simplest beach date ideas is to go on a beach walk. Take a leisurely walk on the beach with your partner and enjoy the sound of the waves, the sand between your toes, and the beauty of the scenery. The sense of serenity and the closeness it fosters create a romantic and rejuvenating experience.

  1. Bird watching

Sometimes the best date ideas are the simplest ones. With bird watching, you can immerse yourself in the beauty of nature and identify the wild birds with your partner. Living in London, we’ve been able to recently identify pelicans, tufted ducks, and other geese and it’s quite fun! You can observe their beauty, their colors, and their habits. The environment is usually peaceful so it’s quite nice to connect together!

  1. Bungee jumping for one of the extreme date ideas

If you like sharing thrills together, this one’s for you! Take a leap of faith with your partner and experience the thrill of bungee jumping together. You’ll be able to overcome your fears, support each other, and enjoy the adrenaline rush which will bring you closer!

  1. Have a bonfire with s’mores

Having lived in the USA and Eric being from Canada, smore’s are like…a given! Having a bonfire at night with a couple of blankets is super romantic. You can roast marshmallows, make s’mores, and enjoy the warmth and the intimacy of the moment.Whether you want to talk about the world or just cuddle and sit in silence, it’s a great romantic date that most people love!

  1. Beach walk

Between the beaches near Dublin, the beaches in Greece and spending time on the best beaches of West Vancouver, we don’t count anymore how many beach walks we’ve taken! We recommend taking a romantic walk on the beach with your partner and enjoying the beautiful scenery, the sound of the waves, and the peacefulness of the moment. Hold hands, take in the view, and talk about your hopes and dreams. The closeness and the tranquility create a romantic and meaningful experience.

C dates alphabet dating

Our top 3 picks: Cat cafe, Couple’s massage, Cherry blossoms adventure

Marie and Tom at Java Whiskers Marylebone
Marie and Tom at Java Whiskers Marylebone
Us at the Cherry Blossoms in London
Us at the Cherry Blossoms in London

Indoor alphabet dating C ideas

  1. Cat cafe date

One of our first dates in the UK was going to a cat cafe in London called Java Whiskers. Our experience at Java Whiskers was so cozy and cute, it was hard to leave! We had booked the cat suite with some chocolate treats and plenty of time with the cats for snuggles! We also visited a cat cafe in Warsaw, a cat cafe in Porto and a cat cafe in Dublin. Spend a cozy and romantic afternoon with your partner in a cat cafe. Cuddle with adorable cats, sip on coffee or tea, and enjoy each other’s company in a peaceful and cute environment. The sense of relaxation and the shared love for animals create a romantic and playful experience.

  1. Cocktail challenge

Have fun with your partner and create your own signature cocktails together. Playful competition, creativity, and experimentation create a romantic and engaging experience that allows you to learn more about each other’s preferences and personalities.

  1. Cooking competition

Spice up your date night with a cooking competition. Challenge each other to create a delicious dish, experiment with new ingredients, and enjoy a delicious meal together. The sense of playfulness, creativity, and collaboration create a romantic and memorable experience.

  1. Couple massages

Treat yourself and your partner to a relaxing and rejuvenating couple massage. Enjoy the soothing ambiance, the soft music, and the touch of professional masseurs. We got couple’s massages in Greece and Vancouver and always loved them. They’re so relaxing and it’s a great way to get pampered together.

  1. Cooking classes

Learn new skills and have fun with your partner by taking a cooking class together. Explore new cuisines, experiment with new ingredients, and enjoy a delicious meal together. The sense of collaboration, learning, and creativity create a romantic and engaging experience.

  1. Cirque du Soleil show

We had the opportunity to go to a show of the Cirque du Soleil in Vancouver and it was incredible! You’ll be amazed and enchanted by the magical performances of Cirque du Soleil with your partner. The breathtaking acrobatics, the stunning visuals, and the mesmerizing music create a romantic and awe-inspiring experience that you will never forget.

  1. Comedy club show

When we moved to London, Eric took me to a comedy show. This was one of our first dates in London and we laughed all night. The best part? It was free! Laugh out loud and enjoy a hilarious night with your partner at a comedy club. The sense of humor, the shared enjoyment, and the playful atmosphere create a romantic and entertaining experience that allows you to bond over laughter.

  1. Craft Christmas decorations

Get into the festive spirit with your partner by creating beautiful Christmas decorations together. Explore your creativity, experiment with different materials, and enjoy the shared sense of excitement and anticipation for the holidays.

  1. Circus visit

Experience the wonder and the magic of the circus with your partner. Enjoy the playful atmosphere, the stunning performances, and the sense of childlike joy and wonder. The sense of fun, creativity, and awe create a romantic and memorable experience.

  1. Casino date

Have a thrilling night out with your partner at a casino. Play games, take risks, and enjoy the exciting atmosphere. The sense of adventure, excitement, and playful competition create a romantic and engaging experience that allows you to let loose and have fun. You can head to the Casino on a road trip as well and mix the two. For example on our road trip to New Orleans, we stopped in Natchez to go to the boat casino.

Outdoor C date ideas

  1. Color-themed picnic

Picnics are cute but color-themed picnics are better! Eric and I love going on picnics but sometimes they feel boring and like they are always the same. To put a twist on them, we like to create a romantic and colorful picnic together. You’ll have to choose a color theme and decorate your picnic spot with matching pillows, blankets, and flowers. Then, each of you must get half of the picnic items that match that colour. For example, if you pick the color green, you’ll be allowed to bring a cucumber salad, some apples, grapes, and a spinach bake.

  1. Cherry blossoms adventure

In April, Eric and I went on a cherry blossoms adventure and it was super cute! The trees were white and pink and it really set a cute atmosphere to walk hand in hand. You can take a romantic stroll with your partner in a beautiful cherry blossom alley at a local park and even merge it with the color-themed picnic idea!

  1. Cherry picking

Later in the season, we recommend cherry picking. You can enjoy the fresh air, the beautiful scenery, and the delicious fruit together. The sense of adventure, playfulness, and shared experience creates a romantic and joyful experience. It’s a simple date idea that can work wonders!

  1. Canoeing

If you both like spending time on water, you’ll enjoy a serene and romantic canoe ride together. You can explore the beauty of nature, the sound of water, and the sense of tranquility while laughing together and working as a team to move forward.

  1. Canyoning, one of the best dates ideas in Utah

I went canyoning once and it’s not for the faint of heart! But if you both like adventures and you’re both athletic, canyoning can be really fun. You’ll be walking down to a river and then swimming, walking between the rocks, sliding on waterfalls. Canyoning presents many opportunities to work together, help each other and have some fun together in a beautiful scenery. If you’ve never done it before, be prepared to be sore the next day!

  1. Cinema outside

You can enjoy a romantic movie night under the stars with your partner. Cuddle up under a blanket, enjoy some popcorn and enjoy the cinematic experience in a unique and beautiful setting. You can either make your own outdoor cinema in your backyard with a projector or go to a local outdoor cinema with your car!

  1. Attend a Concert

Concerts are fun and make for great date ideas. One of our favorite memories is attending a special show at the Bluebird Cafe in Nashville! We wouldn’t recommend them for a first date as it can be hard to chat during one. However, for a date after that, they’re great! You can sing along, dance together, and enjoy the lively atmosphere for great memories.

  1. Camping under the stars

Get away from the hustle and bustle of the city and enjoy a romantic night camping under the stars. Enjoy the peaceful atmosphere, the sound of nature, and the sense of adventure. Don’t forget to bring some twinkly lights for a more romantic atmosphere!

Date ideas that start with D

Our top 3 picks: DIY spa day at home, Dairy Queen run, Dance class

Us with face masks from Lush during a spa date at home in Ireland
Us with face masks from Lush during a spa date at home in Ireland

Indoor alphabet dating D letter ideas

  1. Take a Dance class

If you’re looking for a unique and romantic date idea, consider taking a dance class with your partner. You’ll learn a new skill together and get to enjoy the physical connection of dancing. Plus, it’s a fun way to let loose and have some laughs together while also strengthening your bond.

  1. DIY a spa day at home

Show your partner how much you care by planning a relaxing and romantic spa day at home. Set the mood with candles, soft music, and aromatherapy oils. Take turns giving each other massages, facials, and other treatments. Eric and I love to make our own face masks, or apply ones we bought together. Not only will you both feel pampered, but you’ll also deepen your connection and intimacy.

  1. Distillery tour

For a unique and educational date, why not take a distillery tour with your partner? You’ll get to learn about the history of alcohol and the process of distilling while also sampling some delicious spirits. The intimate atmosphere of a distillery makes it the perfect setting for a romantic day out. It’s also a great opportunity to learn something new together.

  1. Darts playing

A fun and lighthearted date idea is to play darts with your partner. You can challenge each other to games and keep score, or just play for fun. The competitive nature of the game will bring you closer together, and the shared experience will create lasting memories. You can find dart games at local pubs and restaurants.

  1. Dim sum dinner

Eric has been telling me about Dim Sum for so long, we finally went to a popular Dim Sum restaurant in London recently! It was really good and we had a great time trying unique dishes together for the first time. This Chinese tradition involves sharing small plates of food, which encourages conversation and connection. You can try new dishes together and bond over your love of good food. Plus, the intimate and cozy atmosphere of a dim sum restaurant is perfect for a romantic night out.

Outdoor alphabet dating ideas D letter

  1. Dog Walking Together

If you love dogs, this one is for you! You can enjoy the simple pleasures of life with your date as you take a leisurely walk with your furry friend. Let your connection grow deeper as you talk about your day and enjoy the beauty of nature together. Cuddles and snuggles are encouraged!

  1. Dairy Queen Run

The first time I joined Eric in Vancouver was definitely marked by our trips to Dairy Queen. We would get a blizzard and then walk along the water with great views on Lions Gate Bridge, one of themost romantic views in Vancouver. You can share a sundae or shake, laugh and make memories that you’ll cherish forever.

  1. Downtown Exploration

Embark on an adventure with your partner as you explore the city’s hidden gems. And trust us, there’s always something to do or see that you’ve never done before! You can hold hands as you stroll through the streets, discovering new cafes, shops, and landmarks. Take a break to enjoy a cup of coffee or a meal together and strengthen your connection.

Date ideas that start with E

Our top 3 picks: Escape games, Evening ice cream, Eye masks

Us at an Escape Game together in Whistler
Us at an Escape Game together in Whistler

Indoor letter E date ideas

  1. Escape Games

One of our favorite E dates alphabet dating ideas is going to escape rooms. We’ve done many escapes rooms in Canada and Ireland and we’ve also done an escape boat in Ireland! Get your hearts racing and your minds working together as you solve puzzles and escape a room. You’ll be able to work as a team to beat the clock and escape to freedom. The excitement and challenge of this date will create a stronger connection between you and your partner.

  1. Make Eye Masks Together

Unwind with your partner as you make eye masks for a relaxing spa day or for a better night’s sleep. The process of creating something together will strengthen your connection and allow you to relax and unwind together.

Outdoor date ideas beginning with E

  1. Explore a Local Area

You can get to know your city and your date better by exploring a new neighborhood or attraction. Take a walk or bike ride through the streets and enjoy the sights and sounds together. Discover new restaurants, shops, or parks and deepen your connection through shared experiences. This is a great idea starting with E for a first date as it’s really cheap.

  1. Eat Out

Eating out is always on the table! You can treat your taste buds to a new culinary adventure by trying a new restaurant or cuisine. Share dishes, sample new flavors, and indulge in delicious desserts. The romantic atmosphere and delicious food will set the stage for a special and memorable date. One fun way to go about it is closing your eyes and pointing your finger at one of the restaurants on Google Maps. See where the wind takes you!

  1. Evening Ice Cream and Walk Date

Is ice cream a good date idea? We wouldn’t say no! You can enjoy many flavors as you take a leisurely stroll with your partner through a park or a scenic area. The simplicity of this date will allow you to focus on each other, connect on a deeper level, and create memories that you will cherish for years to come.

F date ideas

Our top 3 picks: Foot bath, Ferris Wheel, Food tasting competition

Us on the ferris wheel in Dublin, one of the alphabet dating ideas that start with an F
Us on the ferris wheel in Dublin, one of the alphabet dating ideas that start with an F

Indoor date ideas with an F

  1. Food Tasting Competition

One way to spice up your date night is to have a fun and interactive food tasting competition. You can challenge each other to taste and identify different flavors and ingredients, which will create friendly competition. You’ll be laughing at each other’s faces when trying weird ingredients and have a good time.

  1. Foot Bath Together

When we lived in Dublin, we had many foot bath dates. Foot baths are super relaxing and create a spa at home which makes it easier to connect together. You can add your favorite essential oils and enjoy the calming effects of warm water on your feet.

  1. Fruit Infused Bath Together

Another F date idea is to create a sensual and romantic atmosphere by preparing a fruit-infused bath for you and your partner. Add your favorite fruits, candles, and soft music to set the mood for a luxurious and indulgent date. This is a great way to relax and put a twist on the usual bubble bath. 

  1. Fondue Dinner

Being French, Fondue is always a good idea for a date in my opinion! You can share a delicious and romantic meal as you dip bread, fruit, and other treats into a warm pot of melted cheese or chocolate.

  1. Attend a Fashion Show

Take in the glamour and excitement of a fashion show with your partner. You can watch the models walk the runway and discuss your favorite outfits and designs. The excitement and shared experience of this date will create a stronger bond between you and your partner.

  1. Make a Fashion Show

If there are no fashion shows in your area, you can make your own. You can dress up and walk the runway (your home carpet lol) and rate each other. This is a fun way to spend some quality time together without having to spend a cent.

  1. Flower Bouquet Making

Another one of our alphabet dating ideas that start with an F is to make a beautiful bouquet of flowers with your partner. You can go pick up some wildflowers or select your favorite blooms, and arrange them into a stunning bouquet.

Outdoor alphabet dating ideas that start with an F

  1. Go Fishing Together for a quiet morning date idea

Spend a peaceful and relaxing day with your partner as you cast a line and enjoy the beauty of nature. Fishing together allows you to engage in conversation, enjoy the quiet moments, and bask in the beauty of the surroundings.

  1. Film Festival

One of the outdoor alphabet dating ideas that start with an F is to explore your favorite genre of film with your partner at a local film festival. You’ll be able to share your thoughts and emotions about each film and discuss your favorite parts. The shared experience of watching films together will create a bond between you and your partner and spark interesting conversations.

  1. Ferris Wheel Adventure

Ferris wheels are always a great date idea for couples. Take in the breathtaking views of the city skyline with your partner on a romantic ferris wheel ride. We’ve gone on Ferris wheels in France, in Dublin and plan on doing it also in London at the famous London Eye. Hold hands, enjoy the fresh air, and watch the lights twinkle as you make your way up and down. The romantic atmosphere of this date will create a special and memorable experience.

  1. Frisbee Fun

For sunny days, a bit of frisbee fun is a great date idea. You can enjoy the great outdoors with your partner as you toss a frisbee back and forth. you can choose to make it a friendly competition, soak up the sun, and enjoy the beauty of nature.

Alphabet dating G ideas

Our top 3 picks: Guess the song, Geocaching, Golden Hour photoshoot

Us doing a Golden Hour photoshoot
Us doing a Golden Hour photoshoot

Indoor alphabet dating ideas that start with G

  1. Guess the Song

Whether you’re on a romantic road trip, or in your living room, guess the song is a great date idea. Challenge your partner’s musical knowledge with a fun game of “Guess the Song.” You can take turns playing songs and guessing the artist, and enjoy the friendly competition. You can make it hard by asking for more information like the artists, the name of the song and the year it came out.

  1. Game Night

This is a traditional at home date idea. You can unleash your competitive spirit with your partner as you engage in a game night. Choose your favorite board games like Carcassonne or Jaipur,  card games or video games and enjoy some friendly competition. 

Outdoor alphabet dating ideas that start with G

  1. Golden Hour Photoshoot

Whether at home or on a romantic vacation, you can capture the beauty of the setting sun with a romantic golden hour photoshoot. Choose a picturesque location like the beach or by a river and take turns capturing each other’s beauty and personality. The intimacy and shared experience of taking photos together will create a bond between you and your partner and create lasting memories.

  1. Golden Hour Picnic

A good twist on a picnic date is doing it during Golden hour. You can bring your favorite snacks and drinks, a cozy blanket, and enjoy the stunning views of the sunset. 

  1. Golfing Together

Golfing requires concentration and makes it a perfect date to be focused on your game and your date. You can enjoy the fresh air, sunshine, and friendly competition together. You can help your partner to hit the ball which also promotes more closeness.

  1. Go Geocaching Together

We discovered geocaching in Dublin and loved doing it! It’s like embarking on a treasure hunt with your partner as you search for hidden caches using your phones. You can enjoy the thrill of the hunt and the beauty of nature as you explore new locations. It’s a great way to work as a team and discover more local areas together.

  1. Take a Gardening Class

Get your hands dirty and learn something new with your partner by taking a gardening class. Plant and tend to a small garden together and enjoy the satisfaction of watching it grow.

  1. Go Glamping for the Night

Escape from the hustle and bustle of everyday life with your partner on a glamping trip. Glamping is like camping but in a more comfortable situation meaning you’ll have a real bed for example. You can spend the night in a cozy, luxurious tent or cabin, and enjoy the beauty of nature together.

Alphabet dating H ideas

Our top 3 picks: Hand massages, Horseback riding at sunrise, Hiking with your date 

Us horseback riding on the beach, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a H
Us horseback riding on the beach, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a H

Indoor

  1. Make hot chocolate balls together

For a winter date, we recommend making hot chocolate balls together. Imagine the sweet smell of melting chocolate and the satisfaction of creating something with your partner. As you work together to mold and shape the balls, you will connect on a deeper level and strengthen your bond through teamwork. You can stuff them with marshmallows and cocoa powder. Plus, you can cozy up afterwards and enjoy the delicious treat you made.

  1. Hand massages

If you’re not into couple’s massages, maybe a hand massage will be better. Touch is one of the most powerful ways to create intimacy and build connection with your partner. By giving each other hand massages, you can show your love and appreciation for one another in a gentle and soothing way.

  1. Harry Potter marathon

We’re big Harry Potter fans over here so this one had to be on the list. Curl up with your partner and immerse yourselves in the magical world of Harry Potter. Share your favorite moments and characters, and discuss the deeper themes and messages of the series.

Outdoor

  1. Horseback riding on the beach

Horseback riding is one of our favorite dates to organize when we’re on vacation. We spend some time horseback riding in Kerry on the Dingle Peninsula and had a wonderful time. Imagine the wind in your hair, the sun on your face, and the sound of waves crashing as you and your partner ride horses along a beautiful beach. This romantic date idea allows you to connect with nature and each other in a unique and unforgettable way.

  1. Horseback riding in a national park or special place

I had the chance to go horseback riding at sunrise in Monument Valleyand it’s a memory that will forever stick with me. Whether it’s a lush forest, rolling hills, or a breathtaking mountain range, horseback riding in a special place allows you to explore the beauty of nature while also experiencing the thrill of adventure.

  1. Hike together at sunrise

Hiking is a great first date and can be made into a range of dates after that. Watch the world come alive with your partner as you embark on a hike together at sunrise. The beauty of nature combined with the intimacy of experiencing it with your loved one is a recipe for a truly romantic date. You’ll have the opportunity to connect with each other and with the world around you.

  1. Helicopter ride for special occasions

Take your love to new heights with a romantic helicopter ride for a special occasion. I’ve had the opportunity to ride a helicopter to the Grand Canyon during my two week West Coast road trip and it was absolutely breathtaking. The thrill of soaring above the world below, combined with the breathtaking views, will create an unforgettable experience for you and your partner. The adventure and excitement of the ride will deepen your connection and create cherished memories.

Alphabet dating I ideas

Our top 3 picks: Ice cream making, Ice skating, Ice sculpture

Us ice skating in London
Us ice skating in London

Indoor Alphabet dating I ideas

  1. Ice cream making

An Ice cream date can be decline din many ways and one of them is to make it yourself. You can share a sweet and romantic moment with your partner by making homemade ice cream together. You can experiment with different flavors, mix-ins, and toppings, and enjoy the fruits of your labor as you snuggle up and indulge in each other’s company.

  1. Ice cream parlor making

Satisfy your sweet tooth and your romantic cravings by making your own ice cream parlor. You can explore new flavors together and add ingredients to make shakes, sundaes, and add toppings.

  1. Indoor climbing, one of the thrilling alphabet dating ideas

I (Marie) practiced indoor climbing for over 2 years and loved it! You can challenge your limits and strengthen your bond with your partner as you climb to new heights together. Whether you’re both experienced climbers or trying it for the first time, the teamwork and trust required to succeed will deepen your connection. Plus, the exhilarating rush of climbing creates an unforgettable and romantic experience.

Outdoor Alphabet dating ideas that start with an I

  1. Ice skating together

Eric and I love ice skating. We’ve done it at Christmas markets, but also indoors. You can glide hand in hand with your partner on the ice as you enjoy a romantic and playful date. Whether you’re both seasoned skaters or trying it for the first time, the shared experience of laughing and falling together creates a lighthearted and intimate connection.

  1. Island hopping

Island hopping whether that’d be on a local island like Vancouver Island or abroad like in the romantic greek islands, is an adventure with your partner that you won’t forget. The excitement of discovering new places and the relaxation of soaking up the sun and sea create the perfect balance for a romantic getaway. Plus, the memories you create will deepen your connection and last a lifetime.

  1. Ice sculpture discovery

During winter, Ice sculptures pathways pop up in cities. You can immerse yourselves in the beauty of ice sculptures as you admire the intricacy and artistry of the frozen masterpieces. The unique and awe-inspiring experience creates a sense of wonder and appreciation for the world around you, deepening your connection and creating a lasting memory.

  1. Ice bath challenge

We only recommend this one after you’ve done your own research. Dare to take on the cold with your partner and deepen your connection in the process. The shared experience of challenging yourselves and pushing your limits creates a sense of accomplishment and closeness. The adrenaline rush and endorphins released from the cold water creates a unique and romantic experience that you can share together.

Alphabet dating J ideas

Our top 3 picks: Jacuzzi, Jet skii, Jeep riding

Us in the jacuzzi on a date in Poland
Us in the jacuzzi on a date in Poland

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  1. Go in the Jacuzzi

One of the most relaxing alphabet dating ideas is going into the jacuzzi. You can enjoy the soothing atmosphere and the intimacy of being close together while enjoying the relaxing bubbles.

  1. Play Jigsaw Puzzles

For one of the best at-home alphabet dating ideas, you can spend a cozy night in with your partner by playing jigsaw puzzles together. Choose a challenging puzzle and enjoy the thrill of completing it together. The shared experience of working together and the satisfaction of completing the puzzle will create a bond between you and your partner and deepen your connection.

  1. Jazz Concert

If you’re fans of music, you ca immerse yourselves in the world of music with a romantic jazz concert. Enjoy the soulful tunes and the electric atmosphere.

  1. Jello Tasting

For a cheap but fun alphabet dating idea, go indulge your taste buds with a fun jello tasting date. You can choose a variety of flavors and enjoy trying them together.

Outdoor

  1. Jet Ski Together

For an adrenaline pumping alphabet dating idea, go on a jet ski adventure with your partner. Enjoy the wind in your hair and the rush of speed. This is an experience that will leave you with unforgettable memories.

  1. Go Jogging for a Surprise

Surprise your partner with a spontaneous jogging date. Take them to a new location and enjoy the thrill of discovery. Only do this if your date is actually into running, otherwise they will be disappointed. The shared experience of exploring something new and the rush of endorphins from exercise will create a bond between you and your partner and deepen your connection.

Alphabet dating K ideas

Our top 3 picks: Kayak, Karaoke, Knitting together

Couples kayaking on the Liffey in Dublin
Couples kayaking on the Liffey in Dublin

Indoor

  1. Karaoke Night

One of the most musical alphabet dating ideas is to sing your heart out with your partner at a karaoke night. Choose your favorite songs and enjoy the fun and laughter together. 

  1. Knitting a Blanket Together for a creative date night at home

Get cozy and creative with your partner by knitting a blanket together. Choose your favorite colors and enjoy the satisfaction of creating something beautiful together. The shared experience of working together and the warmth of the blanket will create a cozy time together away from screens.

  1. Kombucha Drinks Making

Discover the art of fermentation and make delicious kombucha drinks together. You can experiment with different flavors and enjoy the process of creating something healthy and refreshing. Look up different recipes and then compare who made the best kombucha.

  1. Karate Class

If you like to get active and trying new things, this one is for you! You can challenge yourselves and enjoy the satisfaction of learning karate together. The experience of working towards a common goal and the feeling of empowerment will create a bond between you and your partner and deepen your connection.

Outdoor

  1. Kayak Together

Whether you’re in the city or in the country, kayaking is often an option for one of the sporty alphabet dating ideas. You can explore the beauty of nature with your partner by kayaking together. Enjoy the peacefulness of the water and the beauty of the surroundings.

  1. Kite Surfing Together

Feel the wind and waves with your partner by kite surfing together. Enjoy the thrill of riding the waves and the excitement of learning a new skill.

Date ideas that start with L

Our top 3 picks: Laser tag, Lake swimming, Live music

Us at the lake in Wicklow, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a L
Us at the lake in Wicklow, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a L

Indoor alphabet dating ideas that start with L

  1. Make lattes at home

If you like coffee, you can get cozy with your partner as you whip up delicious lattes together in the comfort of your own home. The process of creating something together and savoring the rich flavors of your creation creates a warm and intimate atmosphere. Sip on your lattes as you chat and connect with each other.

  1. Laser tag

Get your adrenaline pumping with a playful and competitive game of laser tag. The excitement and laughter of running around together will create a sense of joy and connection. You can make it friendly competition or play together against another team. 

  1. Live music candlelit dinner

Live music is always fun and romantic! Indulge in a romantic evening of music and food as you enjoy a candlelit dinner together. The intimate and cozy atmosphere of the restaurant creates the perfect setting for deepening your connection. The live music adds a touch of romance and magic, creating a night you’ll never forget.

Outdoor

  1. Lake swimming

Cool off on a hot day with a refreshing swim in the lake with your partner. The calming atmosphere of lakes is usually a great setting to have a positive date. Lake’s are great for conversation and swimming can create some closeness and opportunities to hold hands!

  1. Lighthouse tour

Another alphabet dating idea is to take a scenic tour of a lighthouse with your partner and enjoy breathtaking views together. The beauty of the ocean and coastline creates a romantic and awe-inspiring setting. You’ll likely learn about some local history and will enjoy the nice views together.

  1. Lawn games

Lawn games are a great twist on regular game nights! You’ll be playing them during the day and outside which gives you the opportunity to sped some time in the fresh air or in the sun. The lighthearted and carefree atmosphere creates a sense of joy and connection that will allow you to connect together and really be present.

Alphabet dating M ideas

Our top 3 picks: Massage, Murder Mystery, Mini-road trip

Indoor

  1. Movie with Breakfast in Bed

One of the traditional alphabet dating ideas is to start your day off right by surprising your partner with breakfast in bed and a movie. Snuggle up together and enjoy a cozy morning with your favorite film.

  1. Movie Night

A classic date night idea, movie nights are a great way to unwind and enjoy each other’s company. Pick a movie that you both love, make some snacks, and cuddle up on the couch. The comfort of being close to your partner while enjoying a good film can help strengthen your relationship. Check out our out-of-the-box movie date night ideas here.

  1. Museum Adventures

Explore the world of art and history with your partner by going on a museum adventure. Wander through galleries and exhibits, learning about different cultures and perspectives. Sharing this experience can foster a deeper understanding of each other’s interests and values.

  1. Make Skin-care Masks Together

Pamper yourselves with a fun and relaxing date night by making skin-care masks together. Mix and match ingredients to create personalized treatments, and enjoy a soothing spa-like experience. The act of caring for each other’s well-being can be incredibly romantic and create a deeper bond.

  1. See a Musical

Immerse yourselves in the world of music and theatre by seeing a musical together. Enjoy the songs, dancing, and storytelling while snuggled up in your seats. The magic of live theatre can create a memorable and romantic experience for both of you.

  1. Enjoy a Massage

Massages are the best and w love them! We’ve gotten massages together in Greece a lot but also in Vancouver and it always was such a good date idea. It’s one of those where you don’t need tot all yet you have good quality time together.

  1. Play Monopoly

Bring out your playful side by playing Monopoly with your partner. Laugh, strategize, and compete in a friendly game that can help create memories and inside jokes. 

Outdoor

  1. Milk Goats at a Local Farm

This one might come off a bit weird but it’s actually quite a fun one. Many farms allow people to come and try milking goats. It allows you and your date to do something out of the ordinary, and learn a skill you’ve probably never tried. It will give you a unique memory of the time spent together while also enjoying some goat cuddles!

  1. Mini Road-Trip

Take a break from the routine and explore new destinations with your partner on a mini road-trip. Discover new sights, sounds, and experiences while spending quality time together. You don’t have to go far, sometimes a couple hours away is all you need. The excitement and spontaneity of the trip can help create lasting memories and deepen your connection.

  1. Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt

Eric and I love murder mystery scavenger hunts! We either create ours or join some organized ones in our city. You can unleash your inner detectives and solve a thrilling mystery together on a scavenger hunt. Follow clues and solve puzzles while exploring new neighborhoods or landmarks. It’s a great way to be present and work together towards a common goal!

Date ideas that start with N

Our top 3 picks: Nacho bar, Nature walk, National park visit

Us after hiking to a romantic waterfall in Ireland
Us after hiking to a romantic waterfall in Ireland

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  1. Nap together

Recently, one of our favorite date activities is to nap together (can you tell we’re tired haha). You can cuddle up with your partner and enjoy a peaceful and restful nap together. The relaxation and comfort of being in each other’s arms create a warm and intimate atmosphere. Though no words will be spoken, studies by Berkeley have proven that hugs are actually really good for your health and relationships! 

  1. Netflix night

An oldie bu a goodie! Get cozy with your partner and enjoy a night in with your favorite movies or TV shows. The relaxed and comfortable atmosphere of being at home creates a sense of closeness and intimacy. The best part, you don’t have to go anywhere!

  1. Make a Nacho bar

Spice up your date night with a fun and creative nacho bar. The process of creating your own toppings and flavors bring you closer together and you can have fun trying different associations.

  1. Nightclub dancing

If you like to party until the end of the night, this one is for you! Let loose and have some fun with your partner as you dance the night away at a nightclub. The excitement and energy of the music create a fun and lively atmosphere where you can both let go of your routine and just be in the moment together.

Outdoor

  1. Try to see the Northern Lights

These days, northern lights can be seen from many countries and states including Ireland and France! So no need to go to the North Pole to see them. Embark on a magical and romantic journey with your partner as you try to catch a glimpse of the Northern Lights. The natural beauty and awe-inspiring phenomenon create a sense of wonder and amazement that can make you feel closer. It’s also fun to drive around trying to find them together and can even be made into a mini road trip!

  1. Nature walk

Nature walks are our jam! We have done many walks in Dublin, but also in Vancouver and everywhere we go pretty much! You can take a stroll hand in hand with your partner and connect with both nature and your date. The quiet atmosphere is a great setting to have deeper conversation but also to relax together. 

  1. National park visit

We’ve visited lots of national parks like Yosemite National Park and Sequoia National Park and some were really close to our home like the Wicklow National Park near Dublin. It was great to be able to visit the park for a few day dates and have a change of scenery to get out of our routine. Together you’ll be able to appreciate the beauty of a national park and marvel at the wonders of nature. The breathtaking scenery and natural wonders create a sense of awe and appreciation which creates a deep sense of connection and wonder.

  1. Nature photography date

One of the best alphabet dating ideas in nature is to go take photos of nature together. You can make a list of some shots you’d like to get and work together to get them. You’ll be chasing waterfalls together and maybe even going on some quick hikes. The best part? you’ll have photos to remember your date!

  1. Nature bingo

Bingo is fun but nature bingo is even better! Challenge yourselves to a game of nature bingo as you explore the beauty of the outdoors together. Make a list of items you want to find in nature and every time you do find them, you can mark your cards! 

Alphabet dating O ideas

Our top 3 picks: Open houses, Oyster tasting, Opera night

Indoor

  1. Open houses visits

For a fun date that opens up conversation, go visit your dream home with your partner and imagine your future together. Plus it’s fun to see where people live and what kind of decor they picked!

  1. Origami folding

Get creative with your partner and try your hand at origami. The process of learning something new and creating something beautiful together creates a sense of playfulness and collaboration.

  1. Opera night

The opera is always fun and makes you discover something new together. You can indulge in the beauty of music and theater with your partner and share this new experience together. The elegance and sophistication of the setting create a sense of refinement and luxury which will make you feel special together!

  1. Oyster tasting

Savor the flavors of the sea with your partner as you indulge in an oyster tasting. Oysters come in different shapes and sizes and it can be a whole experience to try them. You’ll be able to learn how to eat them and share this unique experience together.

Outdoor

  1. Off-roading

Embark on an exciting and adventurous journey with your partner as you explore the great outdoors off-road. The adrenaline and excitement of the ride create a sense of exhilaration and thrill. The shared experience of exploring something new and thrilling together creates a sense of connection and excitement.

  1. Ocean kayaking

Discover the beauty of the ocean with your partner as you kayak along the shoreline. you’ll be able to appreciate the coastline views and spend a precious moment together away from screens and phones. Who knows, you may even see some wildlife!

  1. Orchid garden visit

Flowers make everything more romantic! Admire the beauty of nature with your partner as you explore an orchid garden. Learn about these beautiful flowers together while you hold hand and spend some quality time together.

Alphabet dating P ideas

Our top 3 picks: Puppy Yoga, Painting on the beach, Pet farm

Us at yoga with cockapoos
Us at yoga with cockapoos

Indoor alphabet dating ideas with a P

  1. Puppy yoga class

One of our top favorite alphabet dating ideas that start with a P is going to a puppy yoga class. We’ve been to several puppy yoga classes in London with Shih Tzus and with Cockapoos and it was the best date ever each time! You can stretch and relax with your partner while adorable and playful puppies come to play and snuggle you. The shared experience of bonding with the puppies and each other creates a sense of connection and happiness and we highly recommend it!

  1. Painting each other

Get creative with your partner and paint each other’s portraits. The process of studying and admiring each other’s features creates a sense of intimacy and connection. It doesn’t have to be perfect and as long as you get a good laugh out of it, it’s a win!

  1. Pottery class

Get your hands dirty with your partner as you learn how to make pottery together. The tactile and sensory experience creates a sense of playfulness and creativity. It’s an activity that can be sensual or more friendly depending on the level fo your relationship. 

  1. Write a Poem to each other

For some romance, you can express your love and emotions through poetry as you write poems to each other. The vulnerability and sincerity of the act create a sense of intimacy and authenticity.

  1. Play Ping pong

Get competitive with your partner as you play a game of ping pong. We’ve played ping pong many times and it’s always super fun! The playful and energetic nature of the game creates a sense of excitement and fun.

  1. Play Pool

Unwind and relax with your partner as you play a game of pool. The calm and laid-back atmosphere creates a sense of ease and comfort. Plus, if you don’t know how to play, your date can show you which promotes some more closeness!

  1. Pizza making

We love to get creative in the kitchen and make our own pizzas. We love to add all the toppings we have and try new recipes! It’s an easy date to organize but allows for quality time together.

Outdoor

  1. Pet farm outing

Pet farms are the best! Alpacas, goats, and donkeys make everything better! Take your partner to a local petting farm, where they can feed and interact with animals. Take a stroll hand-in-hand and enjoy the fresh air while admiring the cute animals. This date idea is romantic because you can connect over your love for animals and nature.

  1. Painting with nature

Take your painting supplies to a park or nature reserve and paint what you see with what you see. You and your partner can sit together and create something beautiful while using nature “leftovers” that surround you like fallen leaves and wood sticks. This date idea is romantic because it allows you to spend quality time together.

  1. Painting on the beach

Bring some canvas and paint to the beach and paint the view of the sunset together. You and your partner can enjoy the beautiful scenery while creating something special together.

  1. Pedal boating

Rent a pedal boat and paddle around a lake or river together. Enjoy the scenic views and the tranquility of the water while getting some exercise. We love pedal boating. It’s always a great way to disconnect from the world and connect together.

  1. Paragliding/Parasailing

Take an adventurous date to the next level with a thrilling activity like paragliding or parasailing. Share the adrenaline rush with your partner and enjoy breathtaking views from above. This date idea is romantic because you can bond over the excitement of the activity and the beautiful views.

  1. Picnic

Plan a romantic picnic in a park or garden, complete with your partner’s favorite foods and drinks. Spread out a blanket and enjoy each other’s company in a serene environment.

  1. Pumpkin Patch visit

During fall, take your date to a pumpkin patch and pick out the perfect pumpkin together. Enjoy the autumn scenery, take some cute photos, and maybe even carve your pumpkins together later.

  1. Paintball fun

Get competitive and play paintball together. Work as a team or against each other in a fun and thrilling activity. This date idea is romantic because you can bond over the excitement of the game and the shared experience. It also offers the opportunity to go grab a bite afterwards if the date went well.

  1. Poetry slam show

For a variation of concerts and other opera shows, you can attend a poetry slam together and listen to talented poets perform their work. Discuss the pieces with each other and share your own thoughts and feelings.

Date ideas that start with Q

Our top pick: Quiz night

Indoor alphabet dating ideas that start with a Q

  1. Quesadilla making

We love quesadillas! We recommend spicing up your date by trying something new with your partner. Whip up some quesadillas together and bond over your shared love of cooking. There’s something inherently romantic about creating something delicious together in the kitchen, and sharing the fruits of your labor over a candlelit dinner will only strengthen your connection.

  1. Quiz night

For an at-home alphabet dating idea, challenge your partner’s intellect with a quiz night. Whether you’re testing your knowledge on pop culture, science, or history, it’s a great way to spark some friendly competition and stimulate your minds. Plus, working together to come up with answers and learning new things about each other can be a fun and intimate experience.

Outdoor

  1. Quick getaway

Escape the stresses of everyday life with a quick weekend getaway with your partner. Whether you head to a cozy bed and breakfast or a luxurious resort, getting away from it all and spending quality time together is the perfect recipe for a romantic escape. Make sure to plan some special activities and meals to create lasting memories.

Date ideas that start with R

Our top 3 picks: Read together, Rollerblading, Rent a boat

Us on our rental boat in Greece, one of our favorite beach date ideas
Us on our rental boat in Greece, one of our favorite beach date ideas

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  1. Read together for an alphabet dating idea that starts with R

one relaxing date idea that starts with an R is to read together. You can each pick a book and snuggle up together while you each read your favorite books. Though this is a quiet date without conversation, it promotes closeness and peace in the relationship. This is also a great date idea for introverts who prefer spending quiet time together.

  1. Read to each other

One of the calmest alphabet dating ideas that start with R is to take turns reading your favorite books or poems to each other. You’ll both have the opportunity to share your interests and deepen your connection through meaningful conversations.

  1. Re-enact your first date

For a bit of a nostalgic alphabet date, you can recreate the magic of your first date by revisiting the same place or activity where you first fell in love. It’s a nostalgic and romantic way to relive the memories and remind yourselves of how far you’ve come as a couple. Plus, it can be a fun and lighthearted way to reminisce and create new memories together.

  1. Romantic dinner

For a classic romantic date, set the mood with a candlelit dinner at home or at a fancy restaurant. Dress up, put on some soft music, and indulge in a delicious meal together. It’s a classic and timeless way to show your love and appreciation for your partner, and the intimate setting allows for meaningful conversation and connection.

  1. Renew your wedding vows

You can also reaffirm your commitment to each other by renewing your wedding vows in a special ceremony. Whether it’s a simple and private affair or a grand celebration with friends and family, it’s a powerful way to express your love and devotion to each other. It can also be a great opportunity to reflect on your journey together and look forward to your future as a couple.

Outdoor

  1. Rock climbing class

Challenge yourself and bond with your partner by taking a rock climbing class together. The physical activity and adrenaline rush can be a great way to create a sense of adventure and connection. Plus, the trust and communication required to navigate the climb can be a great way to strengthen your relationship.

  1. Rollerblading together

Glide through the park or city streets with your partner by going rollerblading together. It’s a fun and lighthearted way to spend time together, and the shared experience can create a sense of playfulness and romance. Plus, the physical activity can be a great way to de-stress and release endorphins. We see a lot of people rollerblading in London so we are probably going to do this soon!

  1. Rent a boat for a couple of hours

One of our favorite dates we’ve done was renting a boat to go to remote beaches in Milos. You can spend a lazy afternoon on the water or explore with the boat. It’s a luxurious and intimate way to spend time together, and the peacefulness of the water can create a calming and romantic ambiance. In addition, the privacy of the boat can be a great way to connect without distractions.

  1. Road trip for real

We’re talking about a real road trip here for a date that lasts for days! Embark on an adventure with your partner by taking a road trip together. It’s a great way to create lasting memories and strengthen your connection, as you explore new places and experiences together. The time spent in the car can also be a great opportunity for deep conversations and quality time.

  1. Rowing on the lake

Another romantic idea is to go rowing on a lake. We’re not talking about competitive owing but a romantic boat with two paddles. It’s a peaceful and intimate way to spend time together, and the physical activity can create a sense of accomplishment and shared experience. Plus, the natural beauty of the lake can create a romantic and awe-inspiring backdrop for your date. When we visited Warsaw, we went rowing on the local lake and it was super cute.

  1. Renaissance fair

This is more of a date idea for our American friends! Step back in time and immerse yourself in a different era by going to a Renaissance fair with your partner. It’s a fun and unique way to spend time together, and the costumes and festivities can create a playful and romantic atmosphere.

Alphabet dating S ideas

Our top 3 picks: Scavenger hunt, Sunset hike, Snorkel together

Eric and I holding hands while snorkeling
Eric and I holding hands while snorkeling

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  1. Shopping for each other under $10

Set a budget and go on a shopping spree for each other’s gifts. You’ll both have to get creative to find thoughtful and meaningful gifts within the budget, and it can be a fun way to learn more about each other’s interests and preferences. The surprise of what your partner got you can be very emotional too!

  1. Switch drawings

For this date, you’ll each need to start drawing something at the top of the page. After 2 minutes, you’ll have to fold the top and switch drawings. You’ll then have to continue your date’s drawing without knowing what they drew. After a while, you’ll have a full drawing done and you can unfold the sheets of paper to reveal the final pieces! The results are usually bizarre and will give you a good laugh!

  1. Skydiving simulator

For a thrilling date idea, go to a skydiving simulator. It’s a thrilling and unique experience that you can share together, and the rush of excitement can be a great way to bond and create memories. Facing a fear or trying something new with your partner can create a long lasting bond between you too.

  1. Scavenger hunt

We recommend planning a scavenger hunt around your city or neighborhood, with clues that lead to meaningful places or memories. We did many scavenger hunts in Dublin as they are one of the best date ideas Dublin has to offer! It’s a fun and interactive way to spend time together, and the sense of adventure can be a romantic way to break out of your usual routine. Plus, working together to solve the clues can be a great way to strengthen your teamwork and communication skills.

Outdoor

  1. Sunrise hike

We love hiking as a date! To make it even more romantic, you should go hiking at sunrise. It’s a peaceful and romantic way to start the day, and the sense of accomplishment can be a great way to bond. The breathtaking views and natural beauty will leave you speechless, making it a truly memorable experience.

  1. Sunset hike

For similar reasons, a sunset hike is often a good idea. For example, if you’d like to go on a date near Vancouver, we highly recommend hiking at sunset to the lookout on Cox Bay Beach. You can end your day with a hike to catch the vibrant colors and tranquil atmosphere of the sunset which creates a romantic and intimate setting, perfect for meaningful conversation and connection.

  1. Sunrise picnic

for another twist on the traditional romantic picnic, go at sunrise! Pack a cozy breakfast and head out to a scenic spot to enjoy the sunrise together. The peaceful and intimate setting can create a romantic ambiance, perfect for starting your day off right.

  1. Sunset cruise

This one never gets old…unless you’re sea sick! Take a romantic sunset cruise with your partner, enjoying the calm waters and beautiful scenery like you would on a date in York. It’s a luxurious and intimate way to spend time together, and the sunset can create a magical ambiance that is hard to replicate elsewhere.

  1. Stargazing together

Find a spot with minimal light pollution and spend the night stargazing with your partner. It’s a quiet and peaceful activity that can create a romantic and intimate atmosphere, perfect for deep conversations and connection. Don’t forget to bring some blankets to be comfortable!

  1. Go swimming together

Take a dip in a pool, lake, or ocean with your partner. When we visited Lanzarote, we went swimming at the hotel beach early in the morning and it was wonderful. We had the beach all to ourselves which allowed us to really connect and feel like we were really taking in the moment.

  1. Surf lessons

Surf is hard but surfing together is fun! You can try something new and exhilarating with your partner by taking surf lessons together. The adrenaline rush and shared experience can be a great way to create lasting memories and have a good laugh every time one is falling in the water.

  1. Snorkel together

Whether that’d be in Greece or in Corsica, we have gone snorkeling together endless times. Dive into the underwater world with your partner by snorkeling together. It’s a unique and exciting way to spend time together, and the beauty of the marine life can create a sense of awe and wonder. We love to show each other the schools of fish and sea cucumbers we find! 

Alphabet dating T ideas

Our top 3 picks: Theatre Play, Theme Park, Tandem Bike

Eric and I at the Mousetrap at St Martin's Theatre in London
Eric and I at the Mousetrap at St Martin’s Theatre in London

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  1. Trampoline park

Jumping together on a trampoline is a fun and playful way to connect with your partner. These trampoline parks nowadays are huge and can really make you feel like kids again as you bounce, laugh and have a great time. The physical activity will release endorphins and create a sense of shared adventure that strengthens your bond.

  1. Go to a Theatre play

Eric and I just went to see the Mousetrap from Agatha Christie in London the other night. We loved it! We had a good time watching the play, eating popcorn and experience a typical British theatre that’s been around for decades!

  1. Taco party

Who doesn’t love tacos? Host a taco party with your partner where you can cook, eat and enjoy each other’s company. Experiment with different flavours and toppings, and don’t forget to share a margarita or two. The casual atmosphere will help you relax and connect in a low-pressure environment.

  1. Tapas party

Similar to a taco party, hosting a tapas party is a fun way to explore new flavours and cuisines together. The small, shareable plates encourage intimacy and conversation as you try new foods and connect over shared experiences.

  1. Tap dancing lessons

Learning a new skill together is a great way to bond and grow as a couple. Tap dancing lessons are particularly romantic because of the physical connection required. You’ll learn to move together in perfect harmony, and the joy of making music with your feet is contagious.

Outdoor

  1. Tandem bike riding

Cycling is a great way to explore your surroundings and get some exercise. Tandem bike riding takes it to the next level by requiring teamwork and communication. You’ll have to work together to keep balance, and the shared sense of accomplishment will make you feel closer than ever.

  1. Go Thrift shopping together

Thrift shopping is a treasure hunt that encourages creativity and curiosity. It’s a great opportunity to explore your partner’s tastes and preferences and learn more about each other’s personalities. The shared sense of adventure and discovery is romantic in its own unique way.

  1. Tide pools exploration

The beach is a classic romantic location, but exploring tide pools together adds an extra layer of adventure and intimacy. You’ll have to work together to navigate the rocky terrain and discover hidden treasures. Take some time to appreciate the natural beauty around you and let the ocean waves soothe your souls. Some like the hot ponds on the Big Island are even naturally heated which offers you a spa-like experience.

  1. Theme park visit

Visiting a theme park together is a fun and exciting way to connect. You’ll bond over shared thrills and enjoy the sense of adventure and wonder that comes with trying new rides and attractions. Take a break to enjoy some cotton candy or play some carnival games together for added romantic fun.

  1. Trivia night

Trivia night is a great way to put your knowledge and teamwork skills to the test. Working together to answer questions and solve puzzles is a great way to bond and strengthen your connection. Plus, the friendly competition can add an extra spark of excitement and romance to your evening.

Dates that start with U

Our top 3 picks: Unplugged Night, Urban Street Art, Ugly Sweater making

Urban street art in Lisbon that we saw on our romantic weekend
Urban street art in Lisbon that we saw on our romantic weekend

Indoor

  1. Unusual food night

If you’re tired of eating out to the same places, expand your culinary horizons and try something new together. Plan an evening around an unusual food or cuisine you’ve never tried before. The excitement of exploring new flavors and textures can be a bonding experience that creates lasting memories and strengthens your connection.

  1. Unplugged night

Sometimes we feel the need to disconnect from technology and reconnect together. Spend a night doing activities that don’t involve screens or phones. Light some candles, play board games, read together, or just sit and talk. The simplicity and intimacy of an unplugged night can help you deepen your emotional connection.

  1. Ugly sweater making

Embrace the silly and creative side of your relationship with an ugly sweater making night. Gather some supplies, put on some holiday music, and let your imaginations run wild. The process of making something together can be a bonding experience, and the finished product will be a fun reminder of your time together. This is a great Christmas activity for couples!

Outdoor

  1. Unicycle adventure

For a change from tandem bike riding, try unicycling instead! Unicycling is a challenging and unique activity that requires teamwork and communication. Take a class together or rent some unicycles and explore your city in a new way.

  1. Universal Studios

Get lost in the magic of a theme park with your partner. Universal Studios has something for everyone, from thrilling rides to immersive worlds. Hold hands as you navigate the crowds, share a giant turkey leg, and enjoy the thrill of experiencing something new together.

  1. Urban Street Art Tour

Take a walk through your city and appreciate the art that surrounds you. An urban street art tour is a great way to explore your surroundings and discover hidden gems. The shared appreciation for art and culture can be a bonding experience that strengthens your connection. In Dublin, there was lots of street art all around and we loved walking around to discover the pieces. We also explore street art when we spend a long weekend in Lisbon

Date ideas that start with V

Our top 2 picks: Virtual Reality, Volcano Tour

Us kissing in Lanzarote with the volcanoes in the background
Us kissing in Lanzarote with the volcanoes in the background

Indoor

  1. Virtual reality arcade

Immerse yourselves in a new reality with a virtual reality arcade date. You can choose games or experiences that you can play together and get lost in the fun. The futuristic and cutting-edge technology of VR can add an extra element of excitement and romance to your date. It’s also a great new game to try together!

  1. Violin concert

A night at a classical music concert is a sophisticated and romantic date idea. The elegance and beauty of the violin can create a sense of intimacy and passion. Dress up and appreciate the talent of the musicians as you connect over the shared experience of live performance.

Outdoor

  1. Vineyard tour

One of the sophisticated alphabet dating ideas starting with V is to take a tour of a vineyard and learn about the process of winemaking. Taste different wines and share your thoughts and impressions with your partner. The peaceful and idyllic surroundings of a vineyard can create a romantic atmosphere that helps you relax and connect.

  1. Volcano tour

When we visited Lanzarote, we spent quite a bit of time looking at the volcanos that surrounded us. It was quite impressive! You can hike to the top and enjoy the stunning views, or take a guided tour to learn more about the geological history of the area. The awe-inspiring power and majesty of a volcano can create a sense of wonder and connection.

  1. Volunteer together

Give back to your community and strengthen your bond with a volunteering date. Choose a cause that you’re both passionate about and spend some time helping out. This date idea will show you of caring your date is!

Date ideas that start with W

Our top 3 picks: Watercolor Painting, Wax Museum, Wildlife Observation

A seal we saw while observing wildlife from Dollymount Beach
A seal we saw while observing wildlife from Dollymount Beach

Indoor

  1. Write a love letter to each other

Nothing hits the heart like a love letter! Take the time to express your feelings and appreciation for your partner through a heartfelt love letter. Use beautiful stationary, light candles, and play soft music in the background to create a romantic atmosphere. The act of sharing your emotions can help you both feel more connected and loved.

  1. Watercolor painting together

I (Marie) love painting so I naturally think this is one of the best alphabet dating ideas with a W! Tap into your creative sides and paint together. Set up your painting station with all the necessary supplies, and take turns painting each other’s portraits or a landscape together.

  1. Wax museum fun

Have fun exploring a wax museum with your partner. We went on a date at the Wax Museum in Dublin and had so much fun even though it was a small museum! You can pose for silly pictures with your favorite celebrities, and take a moment to appreciate the artistry of the wax figures. The sense of fun and light-heartedness can create a relaxed and romantic atmosphere that helps you connect.

  1. Whiskey distillery visit

Take a tour of a whiskey distillery and learn about the process of distilling whiskey. Taste different whiskeys and share your thoughts and impressions with your partner. The unique and complex flavors of whiskey can add an extra element of sophistication and romance to your date.

Outdoors alphabet dating ideas with a W

  1. Watch wild animals

Go on a wildlife watching tour or visit a wildlife sanctuary together. Observe animals in their natural habitat and learn about their behaviors and characteristics. The shared appreciation for nature and animals can be a bonding experience that enhances your connection and appreciation for the world around you. Some of the best places to watch wild animals are West Vancouver for whales, Phoenix Park for wild deer, Dollymount Beach for seals.

  1. Wind sailing lesson

You can learn how to sail together. Take a lesson from a certified instructor and learn how to navigate the open water together. The sense of adventure and teamwork can create a romantic atmosphere that helps you both feel more connected and alive.

  1. Waterfall adventure

Take a hike to a nearby waterfall and enjoy the scenic views. We have hiked to many waterfalls and they are always so romantic! Pack a picnic lunch and spend the day together appreciating the beauty of nature.

  1. Walk in the woods

Take a leisurely walk through the woods with your partner. Listen to the sounds of nature, feel the breeze on your skin, and appreciate the beauty of your surroundings. The peaceful and serene environment can create a romantic atmosphere that helps you both feel more relaxed and connected.

  1. Wildlife sanctuary visit

Embark on a journey to a wildlife sanctuary with your partner. Watch different animals, learn about their habits, and admire their beauty. You’ll discover lots about these animals which will start conversation!

Alphabet date ideas that start with X

Our top 2 picks: X-Men Film Marathon, X-Mas Markets Adventure

Indoor alphabet date ideas that start with X

  1. X-Men Film Marathon

Cozy up with your partner for an X-Men movie marathon. Snuggle under blankets, order in pizza, and make popcorn. Discuss your favorite characters and moments from the films. This is your chance to cozy up at home and live in your own romantic world for a while.

  1. Xylophone Concert

Surprise your partner with tickets to a xylophone concert. Dress up for the occasion and hold hands while listening to the mesmerizing melodies. Afterward, you can take a walk and share your thoughts about the performance. It’s romantic because it shows you are willing to try new things together and appreciate each other’s interests.

Outdoor

  1. X-Country Skiing

Take your partner on a romantic outdoor adventure with cross-country skiing. Enjoy the stunning winter scenery, hold hands, and support each other as you ski. Warm up afterward with hot cocoa and a cozy fire. You’ll have opportunity to share your thoughts and talk about the wildlife you saw! 

  1. X-Mas Markets Adventure

Christmas markets are a big thing in Europe and definitely part of the Christmas celebrations in Dublin but also part of Christmas in France. You can visit a Christmas market with your partner, sampling tasty treats and browsing the unique stalls. Buy each other thoughtful gifts, enjoy mulled wine, and take a ride on the Ferris wheel. It’s romantic because it’s a festive and magical experience that brings you closer together, sharing in the joy and wonder of the holiday season.

Alphabet dating Y

Our top 3 picks: Yoga With Goats, Yes To Everything, Yurt Overnight Stay

Indoor

  1. Couple Yoga

Take a break from the daily routine and join your partner for a yoga session. You’ll be able to focus on your breath, hold hands, and support each other through challenging poses. Afterward, take time to meditate together and connect. It’s romantic because it shows you are willing to invest in your physical and mental well-being as a couple.

  1. Yurt Overnight Stay

Escape the city and surprise your partner with a romantic overnight stay in a yurt. This is one of the glamping experiences you can have in Ireland. Cozy up by the fire, stargaze, and listen to the sounds of nature. Share stories, and take a walk under the moonlight. Everything is there for you to have a perfect romantic evening.

  1. Yes to everything

Challenge yourselves to a spontaneous adventure and say “yes” to everything your partner suggests for the day. Explore new places, try new foods, and engage in new experiences. Fun guaranteed!

Outdoor

  1. Yoga with Goats

For a unique alphabet date idea, unwind and laugh with your partner during a unique yoga class with goats. Hold hands and enjoy the calming presence of the animals as you move through the poses. Afterward, take time to relax and enjoy each other’s company. 

  1. Yogurt Bar Making

Get creative with your partner and make your own yogurt bar. Experiment with different toppings, flavors, and presentation. Savor your delicious creations together and enjoy the satisfaction of making something from scratch.

Alphabet dating ideas with a Z 

Our top 3 picks: Zen Morning, Zoo Visit, Zip-lining

Us at the Zoo in France, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a Z
Us at the Zoo in France, one of the alphabet dating ideas with a Z

Indoor A-Z dates

  1. Zen Morning

Start your day with your partner by practicing meditation and reading together. Choose a peaceful location, sit comfortably, and focus on your breath. Afterward, share what you read and discuss how it resonated with you. This is a calm and rejuvenating way to connect and begin your day with a peaceful mindset.

  1. Zodiac Reading

You can also explore your astrological compatibility with your partner by getting a zodiac reading. Listen to the insights of a professional and discuss how your personalities complement each other. Reflect on your shared experiences and plan your future together.

  1. Zumba Class

for some dancing fun, get your hearts pumping and let loose with your partner in a Zumba class. Follow the rhythm of the music and move your bodies together. Encourage each other to keep going, and celebrate your accomplishments.

Outdoor alphabet date ideas with a Z 

  1. Go to the Zoo

This is a classic but it’s always a good date idea! Take your partner on an adventure to the zoo. Explore together, discover new animals, and learn more about wildlife conservation. Hold hands and enjoy the excitement and beauty of nature. We always think the red pandas are super cute and it always makes us want to snuggle up like they do! Some of the best zoos out there include Amneville, Dublin Zoo, and San Diego Zoo.

  1. Zip-line Fun

Experience the thrill of a zip-line together. Share the excitement of stepping out of your comfort zone and into a new adventure. Cheer each other on as you soar through the air.

  1. Zen Garden Visit

Find peace and tranquility with your partner by visiting a zen garden. Stroll hand in hand, breathe in the fresh air, and take in the beauty of the scenery. Practice mindfulness together and appreciate the present moment.

  1. Zero Gravity Flight

If you have an extensive budget and want to feel like an astronaut in space, then you should book a zero gravity flight. Unfortunately, this date idea with a Z is reserved for pretty wealthy people!

More alphabet date ideas for long distance couples here.

Are alphabet dating ideas good for couples?

Date ideas alphabet style are definitely a good idea for couples. We can see how life gets busy as adults and how it can be hard to come up with new fun ideas for a date sometimes. Alphabet date night ideas and day date ideas can help you overcome those difficulties. Here are the three main reasons we recommend using alphabet dating ideas:

Alphabet dating ideas promote consistency

As a busy couple, we can sometimes find it challenging to maintain a consistent dating routine. Life gets in the way very easily! That’s where alphabet date ideas have helped us. By following a predetermined structure, we’ve been able to plan regular dates without much effort. This has created a sense of anticipation and excitement for each date, and we look forward to spending quality time together.

Alphabet dating ideas make it easier to organize a date when you’re both tired

After a long day of work, it can be challenging to come up with a date idea, especially if you’re feeling exhausted and there isn’t many hours left in the day. My partner and I have found that having an alphabet date plan in place makes it easier to organize dates when we’re both tired. We can still enjoy each other’s company and explore new experiences without having to put in a lot of effort.

Creative ideas you may not have thought of otherwise

The alphabet date format has encouraged us to be more creative with our date ideas. It’s a fun way to step out of our comfort zones and try new things. For example, for the letter “A”, we went alpaca walking, which was an activity neither of us had tried before. There are many reasons why alpaca walking is a great date idea and we definitely think it was one of the most fun date ideas we’ve done. It ended up being a fun and memorable experience that brought us closer together.

The alphabet dating book: how to pick an alphabet date idea?

Now, there are many ways you can use this alphabet dating ideas list. Here’s our favorite ones:

ABC Date Ideas Jar

The ABC date ideas jar is a fun and creative way to choose alphabet dates. You’ll need to write the alphabet dating ideas of this list on slips of paper, and put them in a jar. Then, whenever you’re ready for your next date, you can randomly pick a letter and pull out the corresponding date idea. It adds an element of surprise and anticipation to your date planning. Once you’ve gone on the date, you can throw away the slip of paper so you’re sure to have a new idea for next time.

Ask your partner to pick a letter 

This method involves one partner choosing a letter, and the other partner picking a date idea in that letter category from this list. You can switch roles every other date, so you both get a chance to pick the letter and plan the date. It’s a simple way to plan alphabet dates that allows for a bit of input from both partners so you can work as a team!

ABC Dating per week

Following the alphabet per week involves planning a date for each letter of the alphabet every week. This method creates a consistent routine of regular date nights, and allows you to explore a wide variety of date ideas over time. For example, Week 1’s date idea will be picked from the A category of date ideas, then Week 2’s date idea will be picked from the letter B list, and so on.

ABC Dating backwards

Following the alphabet backwards can add a fun twist to your alphabet dates. Instead of starting with A and going in order, you start with Z and work your way back to A. This can switch things up and have you do more unique dates first as well. 

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We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home.

We are Mary and Eric, the founders of Be Right Back, a blog dedicated to romance around the globe and at home. With over 10 years of experience in dating and traveling to romantic places, we share our favorite date ideas and romantic destinations to help couples level up their relationships. Having lived in and traveled through the USA, we also share our favourite things to do in the States.

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